Research shows that 5 out of every 100 children experience school fear. So why do they have a fear of school?
-Physical reasons (obesity, thinness, physical disability...)
-Fear of children older or younger than themselves.
-Parents fight The mother is afraid that the child will leave the house after leaving the house and thinks that the situation will be the same as when the child is dropped off at school.
-The mother is extremely attached to her child and makes the child feel this.
-The child learns the image of the angry, negative teacher who constantly punishes and The teacher thinks that way. He may not want to go. Although not immediately, the child may develop school phobia over time.
Symptoms Observed in the Child:
-Weight loss or weight gain.
-Sleep disorders.
/> -Crying spells.
-Loss of appetite, malaise, nausea-vomiting.
-Such as pain or feeling of pain in any part of the child...
-Constantly making excuses and wanting not to go to school.
Although these symptoms seem physical, their real cause is psychological. Even if you go to the doctor and get tested or tested, no problem is seen. What may seem innocent for now, but later on, has serious effects that can affect your academic success and relationships, negatively affect your life. What needs to be done is to get psychological support because, in fact, the problem is psychological and will be eliminated with the psychological support received. Therefore, the solution is provided in this way. After the problem is eliminated, we will notice the changes we observe in the child and the improvement we see in his life, and we will ensure that happier children grow up.
Suggestions:
-If you send the child to pre-school nursery or kindergarten. The transition to primary school will be more painless.
-By placing the child in the same environment with their peers, we must ensure that the child can use their social communication skills and strengthen them in a relational and social context.
-Negative comments about the school teacher and the school should be avoided in the presence of the child. You should not talk about things.
-You should help the child find reasons to love school. For example; such as play groups, social activities...
As can be seen from all these, the family is largely responsible for the reasons such as the child's fear of school and the decrease in academic success. The child should be ready for school with the first education he receives from the family. It should not be forgotten that education begins in the family before school. We wish you to give your child a happy, successful and most importantly healthy tomorrow...
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