INFERTILITY IS ALSO SUBCONSCIOUS
We call it infertility when couples cannot get pregnant despite regular intercourse for a year. This situation may cause unrest in both the person and the family.
Nowadays, the problem of infertility has become quite common. It has been observed that more couples are getting pregnant with the latest technological studies carried out in infertility clinics. Despite all the resources, a group of couples still cannot conceive. We can use the diagnosis of unexplained infertility in these couples. In cases of unexplained infertility, although all laboratory results are normal, there is a possibility that this situation may be due to psychological reasons.
The entire menstrual cycle of the woman is under the control of hormones. However, exposure to chronic stress causes an increase in stress hormones. These hormones may also disrupt the release of the hormones required for pregnancy.
Although hormones are not a normal organic problem, if there is no problem with the male factor, we can take a look at our subconscious' thoughts about the baby. While our conscious mind persistently wants to become a mother, many subconscious factors may prevent us from becoming a mother.
A person's desire to become a mother is related to their perspective on life. Feeling ready for motherhood is an emotional dimension. If the expectant mother feels like a child rather than an adult, it is very difficult for her to be a mother. Her subconscious mind sees herself as incompetent in motherhood. Sometimes, emotional turmoil makes one unable to even decide whether to have a child or not. This triggers stress factors.
In traditional family models, family elders can constantly put pressure on the child. In such an environment, a woman wants to have a child in order to avoid being labeled as a barren woman. If she doesn't have a child, she will be alienated and left alone. For a person, loneliness in this type of family model is social exclusion. Sometimes, a childless person acts as a poor, oppressed person in his family, and his family feels sorry for him. The person also gains secondary income from this. In such a case, while the woman consciously wants the child, she may unconsciously not want the child and stay away from pregnancy.
The girl child may be an unwanted child in the house. His mother and family He may have been disliked and despised by others. The knowledge that having a child and raising a child is difficult and that it is actually not wise is encoded in his mind over and over again. While her own feeling is that she wants to have a child, her subconscious may code that the child is an unnecessary being.
Today, many women may want to have a child so that their husbands do not abandon them. It is a very heavy feeling for a woman to be abandoned by her man. Consciousness and unconsciousness come face to face here again. Emotions are mixed.
The male factor is also important in infertility. A woman who experiences intense feelings of jealousy may even be jealous of her husband's possible daughter. The feeling that another woman will come and take the man who belongs to her can push her into endless anxiety. This situation creates competition between mother and daughter. The mind may give up pregnancy as a precaution. In order for a woman to have a child with a man, she must really love him. If his ex-lover is still in the corner of his mind, the conscious mind wants the child, while the unconscious mind does not.
Sometimes, a person may be physically a woman but feel emotionally a man. A man cannot give birth to children. Because the child to be born will create inner turmoil in that person. When the child is born, his conscious mind is female and his unconscious mind is male.
The first man the girl meets and admires is her father. In addition to his father's identity as a father, how he treats his mother and other women is encoded in the mind of the daughter. If there is a healthy father-daughter or mother-father relationship, the daughter learns how to establish relationships with other men. Perhaps the most common problems are the false teachings in this family dynamic. If the girl does not have a healthy relationship with her father or if this relationship is prevented by her mother, the girl will want to marry men who look like her father when she becomes an adult. The unconscious mind perceives this man as his real father.
Sexual intercourse is a mutual relationship between an adult woman and an adult man. This woman's unconscious mind cannot distinguish whether the man she married is someone she has just met or the father she knew in her childhood. Her conscious mind made love with her husband While she thinks she is, the unconscious mind makes love with her father. Unconsciously, she rejects the child because no woman can accept the idea of having a child with her father. In fact, her husband is someone else. Her father, the man she knew when she was a child, is someone else.
We can say this from here. Having children is not the only condition for happiness. Children are not the only meaning of life and existence. Children should not be the only topic discussed within the family, emotions should be left a little free. Perhaps the subconscious can be resolved with professional support to find out what is perpetuating this problem. Psychotherapy can provide great support to these couples. Sexual Therapist
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