Contact; It is the mutual exchange of messages between units. In life practice, it can be defined as a cycle that operates through the exchange of visual, emotional and verbal messages between people. Communication is actually the faculty we use the most in our lives. And we continue our lives by communicating not only with people but also with life and ourselves. It is within the communication we establish with ourselves. We call communication, and the communication we establish with life is vital communication. In order for people to have a healthy and balanced life, they must be able to establish healthy communication with themselves, life and other people. The first priority in communication is the individual's communication with himself. The health of the other circles of the communication world largely depends on this. We accept this parameter, which we can also call self-peace, as the starting point of communication. Because being able to communicate well with everything else depends on establishing good communication with ourselves first. Secondly, the person himself. comes from his communication with life. This is what we call peace with life. We accept the human being's peace with himself and life as the basis of a healthy world of communication. In other words, healthy communication is something that can be achieved by people who can establish healthy communication with themselves and with life.
The verbal experience between units in communication. We call emotional and emotional conflicts communication conflicts. These conflicts mostly arise for three reasons: internal factors, external factors and mental differences. Internal factors are primarily due to the individual's inner peace and peace with life. External factors are problem factors originating from the communication partners with whom they communicate. Mental differences, on the other hand, are sources of conflict that arise from differences in perspective, opinion and understanding between people.
Nowadays, especially since the common denominators between people have decreased and individual differences have come to the fore, all Communication conflicts occur in relationships. Unfortunately, all communication channels, from parent-child communication to communication between spouses, are problematic today. Rapid changes in life dynamics, individual differences, psychological problems and unconscious communication are the reasons for this. A number of factors play a role, such as communication conflicts. There are also approach reasons for communication conflicts. Although "listening to understand" is essential in communication, unfortunately, many of our people listen to answer their interlocutors.
Of course, communication conflicts have psychological traumas on the one side, and personal traumas on the other. There are differences, and on the other hand, there is lack of communication awareness. In fact, communication between people is established to understand. In order to understand, you must be able to establish a dialogue and understand. Because "if you cannot understand, you cannot understand anyway". This fact reveals that communication also requires human maturity. As can be seen, a healthy communication is achieved by the mutual coming together of many parameters. Balanced personal development and balanced social development are among the most important of these.
Communication conflicts are more common nowadays due to the close and continuous relationships between spouses and parent-child relationships. We are not a society that actually knows communication very well. When the swelling of egos, self-centered attitudes, stubbornness and spitefulness of people are added to this, communication naturally enters a fluctuating course. In essence, human beings are actually a sharing-oriented being. Sharing is achieved through correct and active communication. The problems we encounter are caused by egos that are not measured correctly, not knowing where to stop and It shows that not showing enough respect to the other person is an important source of problems in communication conflicts. When some people also have problems with anger management, the communication cycle is completely disrupted.
Human beings are creatures that create a world of sharing by relating to themselves, life and other people. This Relationships are established and carried out through communication. For this reason, all people need a good communication world in order to live a right and healthy life. Communication conflicts, which are the reason for the emergence or triggering of many psychological disorders, are actually a problem that can be easily solved by taking them seriously and proceeding with the right confrontations. That's enough. so that the problem is accepted and the necessary steps are taken for the solution....
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