He doesn't get along with your child and doesn't understand goodness or whatever I say, he does the opposite. Their complaints are a lot
. Talk to your baby from the moment they are born. Make him feel that he has a place, importance and of course
a voice in your family.
Treat him like a tiny individual only in size. Listen, understand and RESPECT his characteristics and character. From the age of 4-5 months, as he starts to understand you, tell him about the events in a cause-effect relationship. Don't let your baby have only yes or no in mind. I'm doing this because... s and I'm not doing this because... s. And most importantly, do not restrict your baby. Let him be aware of what he can do and do everything he can. Babies' attempts to do something are not mischievous.
At that time, they lay the foundations of their self-confidence and character. From the beginning of your baby's crawling, identify your specific intangible and tangible safe areas. Be free here. Now when you start walking and the environment; for example when mixing kitchen cabinets; tell him that the cabinets can close fast and his finger can get stuck, explain the results and leave. Be very careful with your eyes, but don't take the baby away and don't say "no, I told you" again and again, explain what could happen.
If necessary, offer to open and close or do some more dangerous operations together. If they don't want it, respect them, just watch. But be very careful and always be on the move while raising your baby. Never let your hand be on your baby, always keep an eye on you. Raise your baby with love and respect by talking so there's no need for charity.
Your baby is grown and you can go out, visit a guest house, go to the dessert aisles, get in the car seat, get off, sleep, wake up, have breakfast... and more Most of the problems are a little late, but it's still not too late, you can get along with your child. Don't get discouraged and shut yourself up. After just a few hard training, everything can be very easy. But you should know that the most important thing here is your control and self-confidence. The decision you have made; My mother says don't make the child cry, like everyone is looking at us, you should ignore the things that are not important for your child's education, the aunts on the street. A simple example: your baby If z wants to buy all the chocolates in the market, first tell him that he has to buy only one chocolate for now, or that dried fruits for dessert are sweeter and
more beneficial for our stomach. It's natural to ask for chocolate
, don't get angry, act with kindness and explain gracefully. You may find it difficult at first as your child is used to crying every time
he goes to the grocery store all the time, but worse than a crying and screaming child
is the mother who has lost control; yelling at the child, threatening, ignoring punishment can make things worse. One of the first things to do here is after you get the first chocolate
sit at your child's eye level and sincerely and confidently, it would be healthier for him to buy just one chocolate
. But when he leaves the market, he can run a jogging race with him if he wants to. Offer to make cookies. It will be difficult the first time, make eye contact with him before he gets up until the crying stops, and stay confident, don't show an angry, sad or ignorant attitude. Talk about what you will do on the way home from the funny situation at your breakfast at home, and when you feel that your child's protest is starting to come to an end, get up and reach out in a game like we should get out of the market as soon as possible.
It will be difficult, but it will happen, just don't lose control. According to your child's character, 4-6. After one time, you can now observe that this behavior disappears.
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