Absolutely not. Life is outside of psychology books and the help areas of Psychological Counselors are limited. The remedy is limited to the desire for change and development of the individual requesting psychological help.
Constant whining; Not doing anything to change or to produce (implement) solutions to problems is already a problem in itself.
Therefore, before contacting a Psychological Counselor, ask the question "How ready am I for change?" you also need to ask yourself.
There are no magic words or recipes that will make everything beautiful.The important things are to be able to face ourselves, to seek answers to the question of how can I be happier, and to accept life and people as they are in order to make others and ourselves more free.
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Cracked Bucket
A water bearer in India used to carry water with two large buckets attached to the ends of a long stick hung around his neck. One of the buckets was cracked. While the healthy bucket completed the long journey from the river to the boss full every time, the cracked bucket could only carry half of the water put into it home. This situation continued like this every day for two years. The waterman could only take 1.5 buckets of water to the boss's house each time. While the healthy bucket was proud of its success, the poor cracked bucket was ashamed of only fulfilling half of its duty.
One day, after two years, the cracked bucket called out to the water bearer on the bank of the river. "I am ashamed of myself and I want to apologize to you."
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"Why?" asked the water bearer. "Why are you ashamed?"
The bucket replied: "Because I have been leaking water from my crack for two years, I can only fulfill half of my carrying duty. Because of my fault, although you work so hard, you do not receive the full reward of your efforts. "
The water bearer said: "I want you to notice the flowers on the side of the road on the way back to the boss's house."
Indeed, as we climbed the hill, the cracked bucket warmed the wild flowers on one side of the path. He saw the sun. But at the end of the road, he felt bad because he lost half of his water again and apologized to the waterman again. suction.
The water bearer asked the bucket:
"Did you notice that there are flowers only on your side of the path and there are no flowers on the other bucket's side? That's because I'm your fault." "I don't know and I benefit from it. I planted flower seeds on your side of the road and you watered them every day as we returned from the river. For two years, I have been able to collect these beautiful flowers and decorate my boss's table with them. If you had not been like this, he would not have been able to experience these beauties at home."
We all have our own flaws. We are all actually chasers of crack. Nothing can be wasted in God's grand plan. Don't be afraid of your flaws. Own them...
If you know that you find your true power in your flaws, you can also cause beauty.
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