You can change only if YOU want to. Someone may express a desire for change about you and may also help. Thank God, that person is also valuable, but if you don't internalize it, it won't last. I'm not saying people don't change, they can only change if they want to. There are young people who come for premarital counseling, and they do very well. Sometimes I hear this a lot: My teacher is nice but very jealous; I will change this aspect when I get married. You can't change it, my child. He won't change just because he loves you so much or because you're so beautiful. The part that seems to have changed is not actually permanent. He will act as you want three times, he will behave as you want for two months, and the same things will happen again and again because he has not internalized it. This is the material to say the least, if you agree, continue. Change made for someone else, that is, for someone else, would not be realistic or permanent. What is unsustainable is not meaningful. So don't people change? Of course it changes, otherwise why would we do this job? The only criterion is; Let the person want it himself. So, let's see what is needed for change? First of all, as I have stated from the beginning of my article, the person must want it. So is it enough? Of course not, we need to take steps. For this, it is necessary to first realize, then want, and then take steps. It's still not over, friends. Nobody said it was easy. This path is a difficult process. The end is very enjoyable, but the beginning and the process are challenging. As Mevlana Celaleddin-i Rumi said, "Whoever loves his feet should not enter this path." When you set out on that journey, Life struggles with you until you realize that the only Traveler is You. With the ones you love most, the things you value most. When you understand the essence of the matter, you stop fighting and mirrors come into play. You will be sure that every mirror shows you. If your appearance is good; The mirror has no choice but to reflect the beautiful image. If our own image is bad (if we look at everything critically, if we are too rigid), the image in the mirror also reflects these. We see everyone around us as selfish and the world as an uninhabitable place. When we change, our effects change, so the reactions begin to change. May your path be open for beautiful changes. Stay Tuned, Endless Love.
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