While there has been a lot of talk lately that women and men should be equal, and many campaigns have been organized and support is sought for this, by approaching the issue with a slightly different dimension, it is clear that how men and women are different and that this difference does not actually mean the opposite of being equal, or even being equal. It should be underlined that it is not a requirement.
Think about what comes to mind when you say being equal, if we wanted to classify all these under a general heading, could you find similarity in these headings? When you think about it in detail, your answer would be 'No' if they came to you knowing the true meaning of being equal. Maybe you can say 'Yes', but you may need to re-interpret this 'Yes' in the rest of the article. Just because men and women are equal does not mean that the two biological classes will be similar. Wouldn't it be unfair to try to keep these two sexes similar to each other?
Equality is based on similarity, but it is not exactly the same. Because men and women cannot be equal by being exactly alike. If the definition of equality is to be made on the basis of men and women, it includes too important distinctions to be made on the basis of only similarity. The most important of these distinctions is the nature of the woman and the nature of the man. The desire to be equal is also against the nature of men and women. Men and women are not so similar to each other that they can be neither more nor less. There is no distinction between men and women. Men and women are different from each other both biologically and psychologically. While trying to equate men and women in society, it is useful to illuminate a point that we try to ignore. Men and women are different. Aside from wanting and supporting their rights to be a spouse in a sociological sense, of course.
Diversity beautifies, develops, changes, makes it more functional. There can be a production wherever and whenever there is a difference. Difference does not oppose being the same, but beautifies sameness. It gives color to sameness. To be different is not to cause the destruction of the sameness, to humiliate or to dominate. with differences b It is necessary to seek out, we can only remain equal as long as we can embrace the different. In order to be equal, men and women must first know, respect and accept their differences. With all these different aspects, both women and men should be able to talk about equality towards each other after learning how to live in peace with their essence. The differences between men and women bring fulfillment. How both men and women meet these differences is very important at this point. Individuals who see being different as a problem-creating stone in the pre-relationship period may turn the difference into their biggest fear during their relationship. They make many attempts to achieve the sameness, and they may even have to wait for mutual changes. Sometimes these changes can affect the people in the relationship positively, and sometimes they can reach a challenging or even abusive dimension. At this point, it is necessary for the woman and the man to determine well what kind of behavior their partner, with whom they are in a relationship, exhibits different behaviors from themselves, and what different attitudes they have in case of observing that they are negative. If the factor or factors that cause the formation of the problem are different aspects of individuals from each other, they need to think in detail about how they can turn this into wealth.
The fact that the difference between men and women is spoken is not an attempt to establish superiority, it is an indication that the existence of both men and women are accepted separately and respected.
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