"As long as you love me, I will be your servant. If you ask, I will be your slave for a thousand years. Let me forget myself, let me do whatever you want. I will ignore all your mistakes, even if you disrespect me, I will take you from the bottom."
All I really do these things because I desperately need that little drop of love you can give me. How did I get to this point? Most likely, I have always been loved conditionally. If I did what people wanted, there was feeling valuable, there was being seen, there was being treated like a human, there was well done. The opposite. In this case, there was being ignored, not seen, and humiliated. In other words, there is chocolate for those who behave well, but none for those who misbehave. There is more, for example, I was always criticized. Since I was criticized, I became constantly suspicious of everything about myself. If I turned left, it was a crime, if I looked right, it was a crime. .
Something happened in the past. In fact, the main problem was that I continued to blame others even though I realized these things. Not taking responsibility, not being able to transition from a child's ego to an adult's ego, and not being able to take responsibility. If I learned to love myself, I wouldn't care too much about whether anyone else loved me or not. Despite the evil they did, I would not stand by them just because I received a little love and a little attention.
So how could I love myself?
For example, I could be grateful for every moment, for everything I have. Whether I had a religious belief or not, I could find an absolute power and thank it, and this would remind me of what I had but had forgotten over time.
Then I could invest in my own soul and body, I would love my own body in all its forms. Even if I couldn't like him, I would try to make him the most lovable and question why I didn't like him.
I would accept, love and approve myself in all my circumstances; I used to remind myself of this sentence very often. As I repeated these regularly, my conversation with myself would increase and I would have completed the introduction to self-love lesson to my own brain.
Now think again; Do you choose to work on love satiety or learn to love yourself?
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