"Obstacles should not stop you. If you run into a wall, you should think about how to climb over it, not how to get around it."
-Michael Jordan
Psychological resilience (
The resilient individual is not one who ignores or denies difficulties or belittles them. Rather, he is one who succeeds in moving forward with renewed vigor, with deeper and more conscious knowledge.
The term resilience in psychology is borrowed from physics. In physics, resilience is the state of certain materials to regain their original shape after being subjected to deformation pressures. In psychology, resilience is coping with and overcoming stressful or traumatic events, and continuing to grow with a view to the future
Therefore, the importance of psychological resilience means much more than just returning to a previous state of balance. It means not only a return to normalcy, but a transformative change that leads to learning and growth. A resilient person finds his strength in difficulties.
FEATURES OF A RESILIENT PERSON
It is a dynamic process that covers many elements from cultural environment, socioeconomic status to physical and cognitive factors. After all, resilient people have some common traits:
Self-Knowledge and Self-Confidence
They know their strengths and weaknesses, which is the goal helps them identify positive and negative emotions, and ultimately believe in themselves and improve themselves.
Empathy and Sociability
they create healthy relationships that allow them to integrate emotional networks.
Positivity
A positive approach helps to face negative situations. It focuses on the good in any experience.
Flexibility
Although they are very clear about their goals and have the determination to achieve them, they are flexible enough to adapt their plans and change their goals as needed.
Crisis Management
They know how to control discomfort in the form of tension or stress, frustration or uncertainty.
Creativity
They have the ability to turn a painful experience into something useful, even beautiful.
Capturing the Moment
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