Vaginismus; is the inability to have sexual intercourse due to involuntary contractions during sexual intercourse. Women experiencing the problem cannot have sexual intercourse with their partners at all, or the intercourse is extremely difficult, painful and painful.
Uncontrolled contractions during intercourse, as well as extreme fear and excitement, increased breathing, palpitations, tremors, Reactions such as sweating, pushing the partner with hands or feet, and crying crises are seen.
WHAT ARE THE SYMPTOMS?
> Contractions during intercourse and not allowing the partner p>
> Having intercourse in a difficult, painful and painful way
> Having only partial intercourse in intercourse, not being comfortable, contraction
> Inability to open the legs sufficiently during intercourse, holding the partner by the hand or preventing it by pushing with the foot
> Crying during intercourse, leaving the bed with fear
> Inability to insert a suppository or tampon into the vagina
> Inability to look at the vagina and not even being able to touch
> Seeing sexuality as a disgusting, disgusting situation and moving away from sexuality
> Not being able to have a gynecological examination, having contractions even if one allows it
WHY DOES VAGINISMUS OCCUR?
> Closed, protective upbringing style of families
> Being raised lacking sexual knowledge since childhood
> Making sexuality feel like it's bad and making it a taboo )
> Incorrect and exaggerated information about the first sexual intercourse
> Couple incompatibility
> Not knowing the anatomy of the person's genital organs
< br /> > Weak emotional ties between couples (unwanted marriages)
IF NOT TREATED…
Vaginismus is a condition encountered by 1 in 10 women in our country. It is a serious psychological condition. If this condition is not treated, it may lead to sexual reluctance, weakening of emotional bonds, and even divorce. It can turn into serious family problems. Since this situation is not individual, that is, it is not just the woman's problem, her husband is also seriously affected psychologically. It negatively affects the family life, social life, business life, performance and self-confidence of couples. These couples constantly struggle to maintain their marriage by being unhappy and depressed. In some cases, the cause of vaginismus in women is also caused by their sexual partner.
THINGS COUPLES SHOULD DO;
If you have symptoms of vaginismus, you should first consult a gynecologist and undergo a gynecological examination. In this way, it will be understood whether there is a structural problem and your definitive diagnosis will be made. Afterwards, you should definitely get support from a sexual therapist who is an expert in his field. Couples often postpone going to a sexual therapist after seeing a gynecologist. The reason is that they are both embarrassed and think that they can get rid of this situation by constantly trying at home, but since this situation comes from the subconscious, the person acts completely involuntarily. The symptoms mentioned above appear during the relationship, and no matter how hard they try, they both fail and become more emotionally worn out. As a sexual therapist, our advice is to listen to the couples carefully by an expert sexual therapist as soon as possible, determine a treatment method for each couple and ensure that the treatment is completed painlessly, painlessly and without bleeding.
WHAT ARE VAGINISMUS TREATMENTS?
The sexual therapist first listens to the couples in detail together, and then listens to the couples in detail one by one. It determines a treatment method according to the individual and the couple. Since this situation occurs differently in each individual and couple, the therapist takes these differences into account and initiates a treatment process specific to the individual and the couple. Cognitive and behavioral treatment methods are most frequently used in the world. The aims of such treatments are; correct information (restructuring) about sexuality, introducing the anatomical structure of people's own body, discussing sexual myths, reducing anxiety, breathing and health Controlling contractions with relaxation exercises, love games given to couples to do at home, massage, masturbation, teaching sexual intercourse techniques and explaining different sexual positions, making the treatment step by step and making it enjoyable and entertaining with the books, CDs, DVDs, models and simulators used in the treatments. It helps to get rid of the situation.
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