When you start criticizing something, at that point you are looking for change. Otherwise why would you complain? In very simple terms; Don't you want to change the taste of your food even with the sentence "The food was without salt"?
So; If you criticize, what you need to do is change. Because the situation you are in disturbs you and unless this change occurs, the only thing your current situation will do is; It will continue to bother you. Imagine saying your food is unsalted but not adding any salt. Even though you are hungry at that time, you should stop eating and take risks regarding the taste of the food you eat.
Your taste is your taste and everyone's taste is unique. That's why you need to add the amount of salt that suits your taste, right? There is no such thing as a certain ratio or this ratio. The only truth is the taste of your mouth. So; What you need to do for change is to take action and not resist change. You can also swim against the current, no problem. After all, there is such a thing as getting tired. But every decision carries a consequence and each brings with it responsibility. If you choose to swim against the current, you shouldn't complain about getting tired. If you're complaining, you need to change your job of swimming against the current.
Responsibility to make a decision; Responsibility requires self-confidence. Only someone who is confident can afford change. Because he knows the current situation, he knows it and he feels safe. But you need to realize the illusion. A situation is neither safe nor dangerous. You feel safe or in danger in that situation. At this point, if your trust is in yourself, not in the situation, then you can embrace every new situation with your self-confidence. Anyway, I talked too much, come on, don't refrigerate your food.
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