The new year can sometimes really bring the newest beauties. Last year brought many special beauties as well as its difficulties and fatigue. This month of December is much more special to me than all December months. 2015 brought me a brand new beauty. As this year marks a new year from December to January, I don't know if the feeling that causes my excitement can be put into words. I am an expert who has been working with babies, pregnant mothers and children for years. I have always felt like they were a part of my family. I have a large family, including uncles, aunts, cousins, and my cousins' babies and children. For these reasons, I have always felt lucky. This year was something more special than all of them. Experiencing this is the most special chance of all. I became an aunt four months ago. I told stories to baby Kaan for four months. I played games with him. Even though I don't have as much time as her mother, it is a great thing to spend time with her and help her be herself. And there are very strong real stirrings inside me about being a mother. Because, as an individual who has struggled to be myself and left, I want to be involved in the adventure that begins within a being whose separation from me I can accept. Because I think the most important thing that can be gifted to a baby or a child is the opportunity to be yourself. When I came up with the idea of writing about my feelings for the new year, I wanted to share with you the best gift given to me in 2015, baby Kaan, and my desire to become a mother. And in our world where information is talked about a lot, I wanted to write something about emotions. And for this reason, I started from my own feelings first. Before the year ends, as a therapist, developmental psychologist and family counselor, I would like to give you a few suggestions that will make it easier to share, love and be a family. As we enter the new year, we usually give gifts, share, and get excited. We take care to choose the right gifts. When choosing gifts, what we want at the end of the hours we spend trying to make our loved ones happy and leave beautiful memories is the expressions of happiness on the faces of our loved ones. The joyful cooing of the baby, the child joyfully saying "Hurray is wonderful", and the adult embracing his gift sincerely make us say "that's it". Every New Year, exchanging gifts, sharing treats at the table and sharing other items gives us the pleasure of making our loved ones happy. Happy memories and good feelings with our loved ones in our lives Accumulating r is very important. As a psychologist, pedagogue, family counselor and psychotherapist, I am interested in the emotions of babies, children, mothers and fathers. Having completed the 17th year in my profession and entering the eighteenth year, in the light of my experience and knowledge, I am very sure that babies begin to form emotional memories in the womb. Even though babies cannot remember what they experienced before the age of three, they are affected by the emotions of their mothers, fathers and other people around them. Thus, all memories of babies, including the moment of birth, affect their ability to remain happy, successful, self-confident and healthy throughout their lives, regardless of age, and to lead a quality life. While I have dealt with emotions so far, I have seen being the architect of my own emotions and changing myself as the greatest gift I have given myself. When I was buying products that I liked, I looked inside myself for a minute, realized how they made me feel, and then bought them. I will do so on the evening of December 31, 20015. I am a person who loves to surprise my loved ones. When choosing gifts for my loved ones and the beautiful people who add value to my life, I made choices by combining their likes with my good feelings for them. I would like to share with you a very important information that may seem familiar to you. At the same time, I will also make a wish for you and our loved ones. I hope you put unconditional love into all the beautiful surprises you prepare for your loved ones. And I hope you will always remember that all the investments you made for your loved ones were made because you wanted to. With this awareness, you give them the chance to separate and be themselves. And for the things you have done and the things you have not done, you will look inside yourself for a minute and appreciate yourself for what you can do. And I hope you will have the inner energy, belief and guide to start your own journey for the things you cannot do. Hoping that the excitement of welcoming 2016 and your feelings and thoughts in 2016 will bring your wishes and wishes easily.
Expert Psychologist
Burçin Demirkan Baytar
www.burcindemirkan.com
www.cocukailadanismanligi.com
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