We've often said, "My wife's disagreeable attitude, my children's stubbornness, my mother-in-law's moodiness, my boss's injustice, my friends' expectations go on and on, and they always find me."
Indeed, life is true. In the process, we come into contact with very different types of people and situations. But we have difficulty reading everything that happens in depth, because we are more of a fatalistic society.
A fatalistic perspective keeps us in a passive and superficial consciousness, prevents us from seeing the connections between events, and blocks the change and transformation that is our purpose of existence.
However, going after what is seen, the first meaning, leads us to comprehension and progress. So, what are the aspects that we cannot see in these relationships? Why does the same scenario repeat even if the scene and roles change?
We are in this world to realize ourselves, to learn, to evolve by getting inspired by the past, the environment we were born into, what life has to offer us, and getting rid of its burdens. Since living is the story of falling from unity to duality and reaching unity again in opposites, it is inevitable for opposite poles to collide. First of all, these conflicts are to know ourselves, to polish ourselves, to transform.
“We do not choose each other randomly. We meet what already exists in our unconscious.”
Sigmund Freud
The other reason is the "law of attraction".Although every human being is created as an infinite, unlimited soul, a certain program operates within the boundaries called the body. This program is written in our black box called the unconscious. Here, the DNA-RNA information transfer from the ancestors, the experiences of the family, the perceptions and emotions that the individual has acquired since the womb are recorded.
And every record, memory, emotion is alive, because they are energy, just like our universe, our body, our brain. These energies coming from the conscious part of our brain and the unconscious have different frequencies. These frequencies act as vibrations.
Our unconscious records reflect our reactions to events, these reactions affect our emotions, our emotions affect our hormones, and all these changes occur with the release of brain chemicals. It determines our frequencies. Thus, the outcome of our mental and physical health and the people and events we will attract into our story become clear.
“Grapes darken by looking at grapes.”
In addition to our frequencies affecting us, they also affect the people we are in contact with, and their frequencies also affect us. Over time, we become similar to them, affected by them, surrounded by them, due to mirror neurons, frequencies, and unconscious transference. If all of these are positive, what's the point, they nourish our development and well-being, what if they are negative?
Of course, as they feed on our positive energy, disrupt our frequencies and reduce our performance, they also gradually make us sick.
There is a saying in the field of psychology: “Real patients never come to us. "Real patients are what they make sick"…
“The human brain transforms or transforms into the mental structure of the people it is in contact with. Your neuromind becomes the brain connectivity of the people you are with. Your most valuable asset is your joy of life. Do not sacrifice this hard-to-find "conatus" to "those who live to die."
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We often encounter There are people who make us feel bad, who make us feel bad, who demoralize us, who do not allow us to be ourselves and even make us contradict ourselves, who cause us to return tired and unpleasant from the places we go to share joy, who we cannot understand by saying "he is not a bad person, but..." They are not really bad, but It is certain that they caused harm.
Whether they affect us knowingly or unknowingly, they are not our destinies that have been sent to us as punishment and must be endured with passive patience. When you look at it like this, you feel like a victim. Victim consciousness triggers feelings of guilt, anger, and over time, a depressive state and not enjoying life.
However, living life with enthusiasm, giving way to all negativity gracefully, being reborn from our ashes, realizing ourselves and adding meaning to existence. We were created for.
So, in order to get rid of these negative effects as soon as possible, should we remove them from our lives and cut off our relationships? Maybe as a last resort. But oh First of all, we must repair ourselves in order to protect and strengthen our own energy field, our self, and to not be affected by negativities and to turn them into positive ones. This repair occurs by stopping, noticing what is happening, our own strengths and weaknesses, looking at the roots of our emotions, effects and reactions, and supporting our development with different techniques. And of course, by being with high frequency people. Science has proven that people who are friends have similar neural reactions to the stimuli they encounter.
Of course, all relationships are our greatest teachers, our indispensable elements on the path of evolution. We must be able to develop through them with awareness, thank them for what they have taught us, and change those relationship schemes. If not, our effort to get rid of them before their contribution to our development is completed will continue as people with the same frequency enter our field again. Our change will change the other person and the system. While change will be healing for those who are ready for it, energy vampires will not like it. Of course, we will not give up on ourselves just because of this.
We will write our story with conscious patience, compassion for ourselves and others, a high consciousness, and participation in life with enthusiasm and celebration.
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