Dear readers, Emotional abuse is a situation where children suffer psychological harm by not meeting their needs for love, attention and care
. Do not shout at the child, do not value
, exert excessive pressure and authority, give nicknames; rejecting, humiliating, leaving the child alone
, intimidating, threatening, humiliating, subjugating and overprotecting the child; Not meeting the emotional needs of the child
, expecting responsibilities above the age of the child, discriminating between siblings
are the types of emotional abuse.
In fact, there are parents who cannot regulate their emotions. Because when this parent
felt very negative emotions in his childhood, no one played a comforting role for him,
probably it was said, "Don't cry, enough, what's so sad or cry about it".
< br /> This parent or caregiver experiences sadness and other negative emotions very intensely.
When their child misbehaves, he/she overreacts to him/her. and accuses him unnecessarily,
imposes negative emotions on the child. Since children are egocentric at that age, they think, “I misbehaved
my mother got sick for him”. Some parents can't solve their
problems with their spouse, they lean on their child and make him almost dependent on himself.
tells her children about her husband's problems, so that the child cannot establish a healthy relationship with the father. If, after an argument, she feels very angry, she hugs her child for relief
. The mother's negative energy passes to her child, and the mother relaxes, calms down, the child
feels bad for no reason. Therefore, when a mother feels bad, she must
regulate her emotions and calm herself, then hug her child.
Some parents also expect academic success from their child beyond his or her capacity. These parents
are perfectionists. They can always expect more from their children in terms of success.
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