- Didn't you buy me anything again, man?!
- What happened, why should I buy it??
- And today is Valentine's Day!
- But you are not my lover, you are my wife!
This conversation or “What will I buy, will he like it? How difficult is it to buy a gift, it's homework week, I bought it cheaply Is it understandable that if she forgets this time, this relationship will end!, I have to show her that I love her, look, if I buy this necklace, maybe she will forgive my last fling, look what her boyfriend bought, doesn't she love me?! Valentine's Day is a day when thoughts like this abound. In addition to its innocent, joyful, exciting and attractive side, Valentine's Day is a day where expectations are high and separations and fights abound.
While it whispers into our ears that we should shop a lot, it also warns us to expect gifts. on the one hand. If you have a partner, you are generally going through a stressful period. Valentine's Day, which seems like an opportunity for couples to show their current feelings and love to each other, add excitement to their relationships, and surprise them with surprises, also creates pressure.
It is normal for couples to expect love from each other. They want their partner to express and express their interest. This is something that happens and should happen in every relationship. This is to ensure that the relationship continues strong and does not fall into routine. This could be a smile, an unexpected message, flowers sent to the workplace, a walk on the beach, or even holding her hand while watching TV or making her tea. These are approaches that come from within the person, that make them happy as they do it, and that excite them when they see the other person's excitement.
However, the love that is shown as an obligation falls on the person's shoulders as a burden. Here we return to our topic and see that Valentine's Day is a necessity from time to time. If a gift is not received, it can be thought that one is not loved or is not a good spouse. Of course, at this point, the degree of satisfaction of the couple with their relationship also plays a very important role. If a person thinks of this day as the only opportunity to receive love, his investment and expectations can be that much higher. A woman who thinks that she has not been remembered all year may express her wishes with all her anger and destroy her partner. It can force or react when its high expectations are not met.
- The important thing here is to turn the crisis into an opportunity. What do couples expect from each other?
- What did a good relationship look like to them?
- Even if there was no February 14, couples would show their love to each other more easily?
- Couple How could mutual responsibilities be taken for a more satisfactory relationship, without forgetting that being a team is a team effort?
Discussing all of this openly and without blame will make the foundation of your relationship stronger and also lead to an enjoyable day. The door will open.
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