Oh no! I Ejaculate Prematurely:
First of all, I find it more accurate to say "uncontrolled ejaculation" or "uncontrolled ejaculation" instead of the word "premature ejaculation".
Because the word "premature" is very relative. Early according to whom and what? If we were to define uncontrolled ejaculation; It is a condition in which a man who has had regular sexual intercourse (sexual penetration) for at least 6 months and cannot delay ejaculation in more than 50% of these intercourses. In other words; Uncontrolled ejaculation is when a man cannot control voluntary ejaculation and climaxes and ejaculates before he wants to. A normal man first gets excited, then enjoys this excitement (Plato) and then ejaculates. This plateau phase is either very little or absent in those who ejaculate without control.
In our country, the problem of uncontrolled ejaculation is seen in seven out of ten men. While this is a very serious rate, the number of patients applying to clinics with this problem is quite low. The reason for this is that the meaning attributed to masculinity is identified with the man's success in sexual performance, feeling ashamed, the misconception that other men generally perform better than him (the belief that he is the only man with this problem), or the majority of women perceive sexual intercourse as a duty and this problem is an advantage for them. (In other words, the faster it happens, the faster the woman fulfills her duty.)
As for the reasons for uncontrolled ejaculation, in our country where sexuality is considered shameful, forbidden and sinful, the necessary sexual education is not given to our children, the private area is not respected. For this reason, the first sexual discoveries (masturbation) were made in a hurry due to fear of being caught, the first sexual experiences took place in performance-oriented places such as the general house and caused incredible anxiety in men, child-parent relations, feelings of guilt and sinfulness, myths and superstitions that are very common among men. ... Relational problems with the partner, performance anxiety (plays a role in accelerating and sustaining uncontrolled ejaculation, a man filled with sexual myths and high expectations experiences difficulties in sexuality. Because sex is no longer a situation that should be enjoyed, it becomes a test.) Audience role (If the man is too busy with his wife and her satisfaction, he constantly watches his wife and will not be able to please her.) He may ejaculate prematurely due to anxiety.) In fact, the whole issue is related to the man's inability to notice his physical sensations. Just as a child who does not realize that he has a bladder leaks urine at night; The man, who cannot realize his rising excitement, ejaculates before he wants.
The treatment consists of 45-minute sessions lasting 2-6 weeks and the techniques learned in the session are applied at home.
Sexual problems and other health problems. If left untreated, it can disrupt people's relationships and quality of life. That's why men who ejaculate without control should immediately consult a sexual therapist to get rid of this problem, which causes great distress in their lives and whose solution is just as simple. We wish you to get rid of all the problems in our lives for a healthy life mentally, physically and spiritually... Happy New Year...
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