Vaginismus is also known as a disease of procrastination and is a frequently observed situation in which the solution is constantly postponed / postponed by couples. With the thought of 'It will happen one day, let's not rush', the problem actually grows over time and despair increases day by day.
Male partners are as much responsible as women for postponing vaginismus treatments: Men The attitudes of the spouses, their disregard for the problem, their overly understanding approach and their unwillingness to overwhelm their spouses with treatments can sometimes lead to laying the foundations of asexual marriages that last for years.
'It all ends in your brain'
The phrase 'it's all in your head', told by spouses to vaginismus patients, serves not a solution, but a deadlock. It's like 'adding fuel to the fire'. The spouse who has a vaginismus problem is already aware of this and secretly experiences the deep distress of not being able to solve the problem on his own. In response to his wife, he says, "I know, but I can't control it." Indeed, the problem of vaginismus is a condition that ends entirely in the brain. However, it is necessary to seek professional help to solve this subconscious problem. The definitive solution can only be obtained after professional support is provided.
The task of the therapist who will apply vaginismus treatment is to show the vaginismus patient the doors of solution. Again, it will be the patient himself who will emerge from that labyrinth. For this, the patient must also make an effort. The sexual therapist aims to help the patient get out of the labyrinth easily by showing him the right and short paths.
Of course, the level of knowledge and experience of the professional who applies the vaginismus treatment regarding sexual problems is also important in achieving definite success.
It is essential to get professional support for vaginismus patients!
In summary, we should consider patients with mild knowledge deficiencies or very mild sexual fears. If we ignore it, vaginismus is a problem that can definitely be solved with professional support. Postponing the problem leads to a situation we call 'learned helplessness' over time, leading to failure. It will make you get used to it.
Nowadays, it has become possible to achieve permanent results in vaginismus problem with a very short and comfortable treatment process with the support of a professional sexual therapist who is an expert in his field. .
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