I would like to tell you about a problem that I see in ourselves and those around us.
Being numb…
For some, this situation is seen in the people around them, and for others, it is seen in themselves. Isn't it sad?
We have already started to say "Thank you" to everything. These regrets later gave way to uncontrolled sadness and anger.
Actually, this article will be about male-female relations again. Now let's start by brainstorming a little!
There are things I want to question or be questioned...
In our numb society, to what extent do we include our spouses in that community? Why is it that when people care and spend time and do something for us, its value becomes a big zero in our eyes? Don't we know how to love or be loved?
This must be numbness…
From another point of view, I want to share with you this;
We have forgotten how to be lovers.
Unfortunately, our society, which has to work more due to the intense work tempo and to live a more economically prosperous life, has started to see each other less socially and spend less time.
Couples became so estranged from each other that physical contact was confined to the bedroom. Unfortunately, there are worse situations. This is the biggest reason for marriages to end. Becoming numb to ourselves and the other person…
Not valuing as much as before, and also not seeing value has become a big problem. Among couples and in society, no one can have good or bad feelings towards anyone anymore. If we need to focus on the reasons for this, we are experiencing problems mostly due to lack of communication. Unfortunately, miscommunication is among our skills.
This problem caused by lack of communication is also reflected in our relationships. So much so that it becomes inevitable for problems that do not even fill a fig to be enlarged.
When miscommunication is mentioned as the main title, the sub-heading may include "empathizing".
As a famous thinker said, '' We are human beings as much as we understand each other.''
One of the most common problems I encounter in our family or couple therapies. This is because we think that the other person does not understand us. Mutual misunderstanding is among the biggest problems expressed by couples. In the face of unresolved problems, there is zero, there is zero. The chaos that follows is inevitable and of course exhausting…
I say this for women;
Sometimes women just try to make the man in front of them understand them.
This makes them feel weak or weak. It does not mean that he is persistent. Because not being understood causes them so much pain that they may confront you with situations you never expected, even just to be understood. At this point, I wanted to give a little warning to men.
When men become numb or feel worthless, their reactions are as follows; get angry, shout and disperse.
So, what should we do in these situations? Or what kind of path should we take to overcome this problem?
My advice to you is that if the woman in front of you is trying to explain something to you, listen to her calmly. Slowly use gestures and facial expressions to make him/her feel that you understand and listen. This will be good for them. Because as long as women feel understood, they can trust and bond with the other man. If this situation is otherwise, it is not possible even if you bring water from a thousand streams. Secure attachment is very important at this point.
So, if this situation does not occur, what kind of effects can it have on the other person's psychology over time? Let's talk about it a little bit and put an end to the next articles.
Depression
Depression; It is the spiritual ground shifting seen in people. It usually happens suddenly or can be planned.
So, what do we observe in people with depression, let's talk about them a little.
The desire to sleep throughout the day, not being able to get out of bed and not wanting to leave the house... Nothing during the day. Feeling tired and exhausted even though you are not busy with anything and somatic disorders can also be added.
Not being able to communicate with anyone and naturally not sharing anything.
Depression that occurs due to such reasons can be followed by appetite. follows the disorder.
Protect our mental health You can fight depression by getting the necessary support to get rid of it.
You can learn the appropriate methods of fighting depression by us experts. It is absolutely impossible to overcome this process alone. We may fall into despair and feel like it will never go away.
I hope you stay away from everything that makes us worthless and numb...
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