You have decided to end the uneasy relationship. Do not make the mistake of continuing the relationship just for the sake of the child; Do not put this responsibility on your child/children; You ended your relationship without reflecting as much as possible.
So what should you do with your child now? We are ready to do everything to prevent any harm. Negative aspects of divorce are always mentioned around; However, it is a great harm for your child to grow up in a home that is not peaceful and where there is constant physical or psychological violence.
When making these decisions for your child and yourself, it is useful to think about the positive characteristics for children of divorced families. You may be confused; To what extent can a child who is divorced and cannot spend time with his or her parents spend productive time with his or her family? However, you decided to provide him with a peaceful environment. Remember, the more unhappy the parents are, the more unhappy the child will be.
However, when you look at the positive aspects of children from divorced families and the advantages for the child, you will see that you have made the right decision. When talking about this to your child; It is necessary to start by explaining that the end of your unhappy husband-wife relationship does not mean that you have given up on being his/her parents.
On the contrary, considering its advantages, it has two different rooms; will spend more full and quality time with mother and father; The most important thing is that they will grow up in a peaceful environment.
Children of divorced families become conscious much more quickly than other children. Because, as much as they know that there are positive things in life, they are aware that negative things can also happen.
They become emotionally stronger, mature quickly and approach situations in relationships more carefully.
They progress more easily and accurately when it comes to getting to know people. in making friends; They are more successful in choosing whom they want to let into their lives and whom they do not want.
If you have a child in adolescence and are worried that he will become depressed; Questioning of life will be intense due to parental divorce during adolescence; This will enable the person to look at life more thoroughly.
At the same time, children of divorced families learn or learn to stand on their own feet more easily. remains in the situation. Because they don't always wait for a helping hand; They are aware that they need to hold on in life.
While they value and support the people they love; They are very careful in choosing the person they will marry. Their forward-looking perspective has improved. In this way, they can establish stronger relationships.
They become more ambitious in business life; They do not want to lean on anyone and move forward. On the contrary, they want to stand on their own feet.
They go through a detailed thought process before deciding to have children; They do not decide to have a child without weighing "whether it can offer him/her a good life; how his/her marriage is going."
When considered in terms of such factors; How appropriate do you think it is to raise unhappy children in an unhappy home?
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