Raising children is one of the biggest responsibilities in life. Although families generally try to do their best, sometimes criticisms from the environment sometimes cause our child's reactions to cause us to question ourselves frequently. How did you raise this child? We see that many families encounter critical approaches, especially from family elders or from the environment. Unless there is an important situation, criticism from the environment will not be very supportive for your child's development, it may just turn into a situation that criticizes your parenting. You can get information about the question marks that occur in your mind in the development of your child by consulting the experts. The development and family life of each child is a very different and comprehensive process that needs to be evaluated. One of the most important factors that we should overlook while children are growing up is “Do Our Children Have The Skills to Be Happy?” And what to do to gain these skills is. Play is the work of childhood. Playing together and playing alone is the most important pursuit that develops skills that children can carry with them throughout their lives. It can also help us all get along a little better. You can repair your relationship with your child who has problems during play. Playing games with children of all ages improves.
Children may not always feel happy like us. Some children may feel more sad and unhappy. You can improve your children's happiness skills with some habits. You can make a list of your child's best qualities. Is he helpful, generous, creative, a good brother to his siblings? Are they good at art, music, reading or computer skills? After making the list (you can write it down), you can tell your child one or two good things about him/her every day, using these words frequently during your conversations can improve their ability to be happy. Can hang your child's final drawing on the fridge or you can frame it or put it in a visible place at home. This can make him feel valued.
You can invite your child to play a board game at home. Reading aloud, playing board games and doing jigsaw puzzles has almost completely disappeared from our children's lives in these days when technological tools are used a lot. Your child may want to play checkers, cards, Monopoly or another board game with you, trying to do this for a short time can strengthen your relationships and contribute to their ability to be happy.
Try not to neglect to praise and motivate your child for something he/she does extremely well. Excellence is of course important; but we parents often focus solely on our children's success in school and forget about other qualities we want to develop in them: being compassionate and generous to others, being a loyal friend, compassion for the less fortunate, and being kind to the less fortunate. Giving him the opportunity to "help" in the kitchen or in repairing something that is broken can increase his child's self-esteem. There is nothing more important.
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