Miss Selma is a 34-year-old housewife. She cleans the living room 4 times a day, washes her hands countless times with soap to keep her child's hands hygienic, and her house is very clean and meticulous. So to speak, it is as if inspections were made every day. All products brought from outside are washed 4 times and then dried. His wife is sent to the bathroom before she even sets foot in the house. Sometimes he takes so long to perform ablution that he misses the afternoon prayer. They have other complaints similar to this one and it continues. Ms. Selma suffers from this situation, and her husband and children have a hard time with this situation. He has developed some obsessions and these obsessions are now making his life worse.
Mr. Ali comes to work at exactly 8 o'clock and does his job very meticulously. All work must be perfect, complete and flawless. Sometimes this perfection becomes so overwhelming that he has difficulty keeping up with his files. Due to his increased workload, he cannot go out for lunch. The work continues after the work is done, and his wife complains about this situation. Mr. Ali is experiencing serious stress and is about to lose his job. Ali Bey's work starts at 9 o'clock.
Rıza Bey has been acting with the fear of committing a great sin for 12 years. It would be very devastating for him if the sin he committed became known among people or before God. He thinks about this every day and feels sad about it. For this reason, she is constantly praying religious prayers.
Before Ms. Şermin leaves the house, she checks several times to make sure that the doors are closed and checks whether the cylinders and natural gas are safe. and thus repeats it almost every day.
Above are some fictional examples. As can be seen in these examples, the scales are completely out of control due to various obsessions. In the language of medicine and psychology, these are called obsession and conspiracy.
Obsession is the behavior that enters the mind unintentionally, and complicity is the behavior done to prevent the intense stress caused by these ideas.
Under these difficulties, the person almost does preventive work on at least one issue that he or she fears. These prevention efforts mean a serious workload, stress, fear and distress. Obsessions are evident It would not be an exaggeration to say that the concept of time is the same almost every day in people with diabetes.
Other features:
A prescriptive structure, rules to comply, to adopt the rules without questioning, to fulfill the rules.
Being planned, generally having difficulty in fulfilling the program
Meticulousness and detail-ism
Being a perfectionist
Preoccupation with issues such as feelings, telepathy, energy, etc.
Excessive allegiance to issues such as good luck, myths, evil eyes, etc.
Difficulty in giving up the rules
Prioritizing working, earning, and getting guarantees
Decision problems, indecision, difficulty in being sure.
Excessive moral attitudes
Experiencing problems in emotional matters, not using emotions actively
Personal Not giving time to people unless it is for their benefit, not giving money or gifts, stinginess
Difficulty in disposing of old and objects
Fear that something will happen to someone around me
Counting Obsessions such as paying attention to lines, plaques, and signs
Difficulty in speaking within the subject, branching out.
These are other basic features. It is difficult to find all of the things written above in one person. As experts, we have presented it in items to make it easier to understand.
Such obsessed people seek help from religious teachers. Their mystical counterpart is delusion. The only way for a person to get rid of these disorders, which are an anxiety problem, is through experts who work on this subject. In other words, we should not get yoghurt at the barbershop or have our hair cut at the restaurant.
When a person gets rid of these obsessions, he moves his life to a more controllable level. For such behavior, please consult an expert.
(Note: The above examples have nothing to do with real people, they are purely names given for a better understanding of the subject, great efforts have been made to avoid any ethical boundary violations.)
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