I see some people, they have taken on so much responsibility so early. They have done so many things in the past that they shouldn't have done.
I see some people who grew up so early. They had to grow up so early.
Look what the famous Psychoanalyst Donald Winnicott says about adolescence and immaturity:
"What I am trying to say is that adolescents are not mature in short. Immaturity is an important element for the health of the adolescent. Maturation has only one solution. and that is time.
Immaturity is an important part of the adolescence scene. It includes the most exciting feature, creative thinking, new and fresh feeling, new ideas for life. Society needs the ripples that will come from these people who are not responsible. If adults are back If it is withdrawn, adolescents become adults prematurely, as a result of a wrong process. Suggestion to society: For the sake of adolescents, do not let them step into a wrong maturity. You can do this by not giving them more responsibility than necessary, even if they want this responsibility from you.
.Victory, development "The adolescent who achieves victory too early falls into his own trap and turns into a dictator." Mehmet Zararsızoğlu defines these children who mature early as children who become parents. Children who become parents and parent their parents within the family. children who forget themselves while parenting their parents. "Adult children" who always remain children while thinking they are grown up. And these adult children, who think they know the best of everything, act like dictators, in Winnicott's words, and begin to rule first their parents and then the other people around them. I don't know if you are one of those who grew up early. ? I don't know if you are one of those who mature early? Are you one of those who think they have matured but can't actually return to their own life?
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