In this article, I will tell you about a completely original analysis.
There are two types with high emotional intelligence. I have called them practitioners and observers. I guess there are a lot of observers among those reading this article. Observers are generally introverted and prefer not to express themselves in social environments. But he oversees successful cultivators. They're trying to figure out what caused it. They are very knowledgeable about variables in social settings, useful strategies, and manipulation. But they do not prefer to put them into practice. Everyone has someone like that around. You want to get advice from him, your life will get better when you do what he says. But when you look at that person's life, it is not general where it should be. Have you ever thought why these people are so talented in terms of emotional intelligence, why don't they pour their knowledge into their lives? Because they are not practitioners, they are observers.
My guess is that observers are extroverted by nature and come out of people who are withdrawn into their inner world due to the traumas they have experienced in the first 5 years and become introverted by life. In other words, the person is not really introverted, social environments and leadership behaviors mentally attract their attention, but they do not want to implement it.
We said that observers usually come from introverted personalities. These people prefer to reveal themselves in the fields of literature and art such as writing, painting, poetry, musicianship or in the academic field as a scientist. If they are a really good observer, they can get very good points in life, but they have an important handicap:
PERFECTIONALITY!
Yes, observers usually have events happening in their own head and they are constantly filing events in their minds. i.e. they try to perfect it. Practitioners are not like that. Many do not even think about the source of their social success. They just do. Just do it! it is exactly said for practitioners. U Practitioners are not afraid to try or fail. They try again and again. After all, the secret of success is to be able to tolerate failure to a large extent. The observer, on the other hand, observes the environment or records the events where the practitioner is disgraced, someone laughs at him, etc. The observer is so afraid of being humiliated socially that he does not even prefer to try the communication strategies he knows best. That's why you shouldn't expect great success in the trials that are made every forty years.
Beware of extroverts. They are really confident and have high self-esteem. Is there no one around you who is less rich, less handsome, less intelligent than you, but who is in better positions and more socially approved than you? If you are a cultivator, there is definitely such a person. Practitioner likes to get his hands on the crowd and behaves semi-automatically. So they focus on the result, not the why or how. They are intoxicated with modesty by thinking about whether I am right or not. Because of their fear of failure, perfectionism, and indeed their hidden arrogance, they choose to stay behind the stage and look at practitioners with envy and contempt.
So I say, if you're an observer, if you know it that well, get on the stage. Because if an observer goes into practice, no one can hold him.
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