If he doesn't do his homework, let him not do it… – What do you care… • Your child; – Whether he goes to kindergarten, primary school, – Whether he goes to secondary school or high school… – At home; Whether your child studies regularly with quiet time, - Or, whether he/she studies and does homework "in a haphazard manner"...irregularly...without rules...randomly... • This child of yours; One day he comes to you and says: - "Mommy, our teacher gave many pages of homework... I don't feel like doing homework." – “Daddy, my teacher taught me so many lessons…
But I don't want to work…because I'm bored…”, your attitude should be: – “Don't…you know.” – “Don't work…it's your decision.”. • Soon; – When he comes to you, smiling, running, amazed, jumps on your lap, kisses you, and asks you the following: – “But, daddy, if you come to school and talk to the teacher about this…” – “Mommy, can you come to school tomorrow and talk to my teacher about my homework, ”… • Your answer is very definite and your attitude is very determined: – “Look, this won't happen… Just like you told us, you should tell your teacher yourself that you are upset and what you don't want.” • Let's see how many days this child will neglect his lessons and homework... • Mothers and fathers; – By taking away all of their children's will, – By placing a “mortgage” on their feelings and emotions, – By meddling in children's own affairs, they actually do the following:
1- They create an environment of conflict between them and their children
2- They damage their sense of "belonging"
3- Children; They are hurting their "pleasure" and "curiosity" that they may have in the future about their future and academic success.
However;
- Because they did not study for their lessons
– When his teacher warns him in the classroom for not doing his homework, when he is embarrassed by his friends, when he feels defeated… he will focus on his lessons and homework with great desire… unless his soul is offended by his parents at various times at home, with feelings of worthlessness and guilt.
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