How can you not make the right decision? Let's say we have two options before us. Every situation in option A is what you want, what works best for you, and things here are guaranteed to last a lifetime. There is also option B. None of the states in this option contain what you want. As soon as you choose this, all negative situations will come true. Even if things start to go well, they will definitely start to go bad soon. If you choose “A” from these two options, you can actually make the right decision. you can say. You are right. Indeed, the situations brought about by no decision are so clear. Based on this information, we cannot say that any decision is right or wrong. At the end of every decision, some payoffs and losses accompany us.
Then what prevents us from making a decision? It is not possible to describe a single obstacle that applies to all of us. What prevents us from making decisions may be a rule we follow: “I must never make a mistake.” “I should not regret my decision at the end.” , “I must choose the best”… We may have a stereotyped belief that follows these rules: “Perfection”… Asking the following questions during the decision-making process can help us discover what is holding us back: “What is stopping me from making the decision as a result of my decision?” , “Won't this hold me back when I choose any decision?”, “What is the scenario that I avoid if there is a possibility that I will encounter them as a result of both decisions?”, “What bothers me most about myself in this scenario?”
The decision Discovering what is preventing you from giving may not solve the problem. This is a natural process. Ask yourself, “I know why, but somehow I continue this behavior.” you can find it. This situation is “To solve something, it is enough to know the cause.” is based on our faith. However, most of the time, in order to solve the problem, it is necessary not to know the cause, but to accept the inconveniences brought by the change.
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