“When I retire, I will leave everything and leave here, I will live my life.” “He got sick just when he was going to live.” “He had retired, he was going to live his life now, he left this world early.”
These sentences should be very familiar to many of us. It is useful to know that there are expressions that are familiar but need to be considered to see how realistic they are.
Life can be lived while it is alive, there should not be any thought or situation such as the exact time to live it. One should beautify life while living, one should enjoy life while living.
One should live life and truly.
Do you spend your days dreaming of the weekend from Monday to Monday while you are working? When you come to work in the morning
Is the issue of how much time until lunch break and how many hours until the end of work in the afternoon an important part of your agenda
? Days, weeks,
months, years and perhaps a lifetime spent with wishes of "Let's go out even if it's noon, let's go even if it's evening". How would you feel if, like those who spent the whole week waiting for the weekend at the beginning of their career, you found yourself looking forward to retirement as time progressed?
You will most likely find yourself alone with that feeling, as does the person who could not live the life he wanted and when he realizes that it is too late.
Of course, this situation that I mentioned
is not a problem for those whose goal is such an end.
Considering that at least one third of our day is spent at work, it is an exaggeration to say that our lives are exhausted at work
< It shouldn't be. This being the case; Continuing a job we don't want to do, spending all our time and energy on this job results in living a life we don't want. Most of us have experienced or are going through a situation like this. After waiting for the bus at the bus stop for 1 hour, we sometimes do not dare to get into the minibuses or taxis that pass by us, saying "I've waited that long, maybe it will come now. Let me wait a little longer." What we will lose comes to our mind immediately, before what we will gain. However, we do not have a definite idea about when the bus will arrive, and when we choose a minibus or taxi, it is certain that we will be closer to the destination than where we are now. Moreover, take the bus beforeWe know that we do not like the bus and we do not want to travel by bus.
“I have studied so much, I have completed my master's degree, I have reached a certain level in my job, is it work from now on?
We are condemned to live a life we do not want by continuing a profession or job that we do not like and do not want to do with the idea of "let's change"
. Who condemned us, what dragged us into this life... Everyone has a reason; Our reasons are the same, similar or different. What has happened so far has happened,
We have a great responsibility for how it will go from now on. Whether or not we made a choice of our own will when we were getting a profession, we are the only ones who can decide to remove the things we don't like from our lives
. Only if you take this responsibility for change, transformation (or transformation), you will encounter a different result. As Nossrat Peseschkian said, “If you want to have something you
never had before, you must
do something you've never done before.”
No one can tell you Remember that you cannot force someone to live a life you do not want. If you need and intend to go somewhere else
it's time for you to take responsibility and take action. Choosing to evaluate the opportunities and alternatives that pass before you
will help you save the rest of your life
. If there is no taxi passing by your location, it is up to you to call that taxi
of course.
I wish you a successful journey.
Exp. Psk. Şahika Akkuş Sert
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