“Both genders have the potential to cheat on each other. If the character of this potential person is suitable for this, he can cheat when the conditions are met. Before you can cheat on your spouse or partner, you must first cheat on YOURSELF.”
WHY DO WOMEN CHEAT?
Perhaps in social and bilateral relations. One of the most curious questions is what are the underlying reasons why individuals cheat on each other. Cheating women may have committed this act for the same reasons as cheating men, or they may have committed it for very different and independent reasons. The same applies to men, and contrary to popular belief, they do not cheat on their wives or lovers simply because they succumb to their sexual and hormonal urges. However, we know that cheating and being deceived cause extremely intense psychological damage. Even an individual who has never been deceived may feel under extreme stress and pressure at the thought of being deceived. For the cheater and the deceived, a period of extremely disturbing psychological negativities may begin after the act, regardless of the length of the process.
The reasons underlying the act of cheating may be exactly the same for both male and female individuals, but they are also extremely disturbing. It may also be different. For example, a woman can cheat on her husband or lover solely due to a hormonal, sexual impulse. Because it is thought among the public that men cheat on their wives or lovers only with this impulse. However, just like it is thought about "cheating women", a man can also cheat on his girlfriend or wife due to lack of interest, lack of love, exhaustion, feeling of inadequacy, etc.
Is Lack of Attention and Love the Only Reason for Cheating?
Of course, the act of cheating should not be seen as a means of revenge or escape resulting only from lack of interest or love. There are many psychological factors underlying the act of cheating. Individuals who are considered to be adults and mature are heavily criticized by their environment after committing the act of cheating, causing the individual to question himself and questioning whether he is right or wrong. It causes him to find reasons and blindly believe in them, causing him to suffer psychological damage. Among the public, committing such an action can be defined as "lack of character" rather than psychological negativities. It should not be forgotten that the factors that form the character of the individual are psychological elements that have taken place in the subconscious. Therefore, it would be extremely wrong to interpret and label an individual's behavior, behaviors and words as "character", to make prejudices and to criticize them positively or negatively. Character formation takes place as a result of events occurring in the individual's environment, in line with the nature of the individual's perceptions and interpretations, and affecting the individual directly or indirectly, and is linked to psychology.
“Histrionic personality The psychological disorder known as "disorder" is popularly known as "indifference". Acts of deception and lying are generally observed in individuals with developed histrionic personality disorder. However, there is no requirement for the individual to be defined as histrionic, and although many personality disorders do not have an intense enough impact to be defined, they take place in the subconscious and can play a source role in the display and development of some states and behaviors. It would be wrong to call a woman or man who cheats for his personal purposes because he does not receive attention from his wife, as "indignant, histrionic". However, in line with his own perception and interpretation, the individual may have searched elsewhere because he could not find the attention and lover he expected from his partner, and as a result of this search, he may have committed an act of cheating. The act of deception can be carried out following many such factors, but if the urge to deceive in the individual has become permanent and the individual constantly produces valid reasons for committing the act of deception and blindly believes in these reasons, it means that he is exhibiting a histrionic attitude. It should be treated under the guidance of professional psychologists and psychiatrists before it causes more moral harm to itself and its environment. All elements that negatively affect your social relations and skills are as innocent as they seem. They are not m and can cause much greater damage in the long run. For this reason, it is definitely recommended to get psychological help from professionals on these and similar issues.
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