It is possible to keep your marriage alive with the little touches you make.
Here are a few of them…
MAKE TIME FOR EACH OTHER
Leave the housework aside, put the children to sleep, chat with your spouse. do it. Talk about what you did during the day, talk about what you did. Get his opinion on what you're planning. The half hour that spouses devote to each other daily is vital for their relationship. Enrich your common conversation topics.
TRY TO CREATE ENVIRONMENTS WHERE ONLY THE TWO OF YOU CAN BE
Develop activities that you enjoy doing together; play tennis, go to the cinema, shop, use the phone, computer, etc. Put the items aside. Take a dance class, take a walk. Spouses being good friends with each other and enjoying spending time together is an important criterion that will keep the marriage alive.
TALK ABOUT YOUR RELATIONSHIP AT REGULAR INTERVALS
How interested are you towards each other, what do both spouses do in this relationship? How happy is he? What are the situations that make him unhappy? How well does this relationship meet the relationship needs of both partners? What can be done to make it better? By talking about these openly, you will minimize possible problems that may arise in your relationship. If you choose to keep an attitude of your partner that bothers you or that seems wrong to you, rather than openly expressing it to him/her, this wound may grow inside you and turn into gangrene, and you may be too late for anything. It would be useful to get support from a couples therapist before the problems get too big.
HER. BE TIME-CARE AND CLEAN
Do not fall into the mistake of saying, "Now that we are married, I do not need to prepare specifically for it." Being well-groomed is a sign of a person's respect for himself and the other person. Take care of your personal cleanliness and appearance. Couples generally cannot express this situation to each other easily, and when it is not expressed, they may become distant over time.
MAKE SMALL SURPRISES
Surprise your partner. Send her a nice message at an unexpected time during the day, prepare a CD of the songs you listened to when you were dating and give it to her as a gift, prepare a romantic table, send her flowers to her workplace, give her the gift she wants so much. Buy him something as a gift, write a letter and send it by mail. With the little surprises you give to your spouse, you will show that you still think about and care about him and prevent your marriage from stagnating.
BE CAREFUL WITH YOUR COMMUNICATION
Tell your spouse that you love him/her often, that you like him/her very much, you are very happy to be with him/her. Express that you are, compliment him/her. Avoid using harsh expressions in your conversations and discussions. Be open and honest with your partner. It may not be possible for you to always be very caring towards him and be perfect in everything. Don't hesitate to apologize to him for times like these. Never hold a grudge or be angry with him. Keep in mind that you will sleep together in the bedroom at night or be alone in the house again.
MAKE HIM FEEL THAT YOU ARE ALWAYS WITH HIM
Praise and appreciate his achievements; Be with him in his failures, console him in his sorrows. Make them feel that you support them in every way; Be his best friend and confidant.
DO NOT HESITATE TO GET EXPERT SUPPORT
You do not have to have insurmountable problems or be on the verge of divorce to go to a family therapist. The support you receive periodically will help you overcome possible problems more easily.
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