The individual develops at the stage when he begins to complete his psychosocial development, the person who knows himself; It means that he has started to establish a relationship with himself. In existential balance, every living thing is born, grows and dies. While completing this balance, we can better perceive what processes we have gone through, who we are and what we have done.
The search for identity in development processes is a phase that we all instinctively try to complete. In this phase, all vital cycles develop us. In this cycle, our personality structures begin to take shape along with our expectations from life. The phase of getting to know ourselves introduces us to our character. As soon as we start to know ourselves, our relationship with ourselves begins to form and develop gradually.
So who are you?
How often do we ask ourselves this question? For whom do we live, for whom do we compromise our own selves? Of course, I can hear you saying 'for myself' as an answer to these questions. However, life makes us experience vital experiences that make us wear some masks and take on some roles. These experiences can be bitter or sweet. The individual reaches his/her relationship with himself through these experiences.
By nature, we live to love, protect and protect ourselves. The intervention of other relationships in the process of life can separate us from our selves. At this point we can get stuck on who we are. Our experiences form the integrity of our character. And at every stage we feel the need to ask ourselves who we are. However, because the answer that will come sometimes scares us, we hide this situation in the invisible part of the mountain. An example of this is that in the current cultural structure, we actually prefer to live for others rather than ourselves. That's why we can suppress our own self inside.
How should your relationship with yourself be?
Start by knowing yourself first. This sentence will solve all the knots one by one. A person who knows himself, understands himself, knows what he does not want rather than what he wants, and values himself can achieve his true self. A person who establishes a solid relationship with himself will experience healthy relationships. In order for life to continue meaningfully, you must know yourself and act within that framework.
What you really need to do is how to create a healthy relationship with yourself. It's knowing that you can create it. When you meet this, you can establish a very meaningful relationship and experience a higher quality self-image process. This situation affects many processes in your life and also brings happy relationships.
You can do this by first starting to know, love, accept and value yourself...
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