If you experienced abuse in childhood, you may remember everything. On the other hand, you may not have clear images of the abuse. Some parts of your childhood may be vague or foggy. This may also be related to how you deal with the situation that happened to you.
You may have flashbacks. Your memories may be so strong that you may feel as if you are reliving the abuse. And what you remember may create feelings of imperfection, worthlessness, and shame in you.
In cases where the abuse is very extreme, dissociation may lead to the formation of multiple personalities. You may have spent parts of your childhood in dissociation to cope with childhood abuse. You may have learned to dissociate, especially around the time of the abuse. Dissociation may have been a way for you to protect yourself from that situation and get over it. You may sometimes experience these ruptures in your adult life.
Any form of harassment is a violation of your boundaries. It means your physical, sexual or spiritual boundaries were not respected. It means that a person who is supposed to protect you, a teacher, a teacher, a member of your family, etc., has started to hurt you on purpose. And as a child, you are very vulnerable.
Abuse can take many forms, some may be subjected to severe sexual harassment, while others may be subjected to sexual harassment such as touching and fondling. Sometimes the child may not fully understand what he is experiencing. If what he feels is uncomfortable, if the child is uncomfortable being touched, this is always seen as abuse.
Children who are subjected to abuse generally blame themselves. One source of this guilt is that the child may believe that he or she permits, encourages, or even enjoys the abuse. In adulthood, the person may still continue to blame himself for this abuse. However, it is important for the person who is harassed to know that he bears no responsibility.
The fact that she consented to the abuse or was sexually influenced does not in any way make her guilty.
HE WAS A CHILD
and individuals larger and stronger than him acted in defiance of his limitations. What will that child do? Nothing could happen. He was just a child.
Sexual abuse is a violation not only of your body but also of your soul.
When a stranger tries to harass, the child knows what to do. He fights and calls for help. However, when such an action is carried out by a person with whom he has a bond with whom he trusts, he does not know what to do and becomes confused. With such abuse, the child's ability to trust and believe in the world, people and himself is taken away from him.
Remind yourself, you were innocent, child…
If he cannot undergo real treatment and the spiritual world cannot be rehabilitated, the abused person will remain a suspicious and untrustworthy person for the rest of his life, accompanied by emotional deprivation. may have to live
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