Famous saying of recent days. “Life is good for you!” It is a kind of expression of the state of being unhappy when people look at their happiness. Maybe it's another name for being too blind to see the beauty in their own lives. Inevitably, people get angry. Even though it is said with humor, it has a bland taste. It rings in your head like a curse.
Nothing is as easy as it seems and seems. After working day and night, decision-making pains and overcoming various difficulties, I stood in front of him and said "life is good for you!" Isn't it a bit shameful? However, the right thing to do is to listen to the writings of someone who has achieved their dreams, is happy and peaceful, and gets pleasure and lessons from it.
Although I am a psychologist, I also hear this saying a lot. I like to distract myself. First, I travel and see for myself. With my philosophy of life that the beautiful is to be shared, I share whatever I have done. This means: “Look, I did it, I went, you go and experience the same feelings, be happy. Enjoy life! “It doesn't require a lot of money for life to be beautiful for me. There is nothing that falls from the sky. I try to do everything that will make my life beautiful without demanding more than what life offers me. This is everything. Unfortunately, life is not good where you sit like that!
It's not just about money. “You have money, life is good for you” “You are single, life is good for you”, “You travel every week, life is good for you”, “You have time, life is good for you”… If a person talks so much about life not being good for him, we need to ask: What are you doing to make your life better? What steps did you take to be happy? When will you do the things you've always said you wanted to do but have been putting off? Or will you continue to sit where you are, looking at others and saying “oh, life is good for you”?
I know and I'm sure that life loves movement. You can't do sports, find a girlfriend, or travel the world from where you sit... If you want to change your life but won't lift a finger, nothing can be beautiful for you anyway. Life is beautiful only when you accept and surrender to your circumstances. For example, even though you live close to the beach, you don't get lazy and go for a walk. The moment you know how to ride a bike, but you don't give up and pedal to the sea, you start using what life has given you. That's when life presents you with its surprises. Life is beautiful despite everything, of course, to those who see it... "What life means to us is determined not by what life throws at us, but by the attitude we encounter in life, and it develops not so much by what happens to us, but by our reactions to what happens to us." Says Lewis Dunnington Now, to those who say “life is good for you”, we must say: Yes, life is good for me! This is my criticism of those who fill their lives with pain in the world where cancer patients recover with the motivation of "I will live"...
There are also those who attribute the beauty and ugliness of life to fate. The only thing that can be said to them is from Shams-i Tabriz: “ Destiny does not mean that our lives are pre-determined. For this reason, saying "what should we do, this is our destiny" and bowing down is a sign of ignorance. Destiny does not give the whole path, but only the crossroads. The route is clear, but all the twists and turns belong to the passenger. Then you are neither the master of your life nor helpless in the face of life.”
And Mevlana says;
”Don't be sad!..Don't worry dear!..If you can see, if you can touch, if you can breathe, ...if you can walk...How happy are you!..Don't tell me what you don't have...Tell me about what you have, dear!...Don't be sad!..Will the nights always be spent alone?..Will those who are gone not return?..Whatever you have lost; Once you see it, it appears on a rainy night... Or on a spring morning... Just know! There are also beauties in this life... Can you imagine a life without Come and Go?...Sadness brings maturity"...Loss teaches patience" The perfect definition exists only in music. We must accept life as it is and build on it as much as we can. The beauty of life is worthless without your love of life!
ROTA: A person is as young as his self-confidence, courage and hope, and as old as his doubts, fears and weariness. No one grows old by having lived too long. What makes people grow old is the end of their ideals. A person is as young as he can admire and love. Take care of your inner child. If he is happy, you are happy too ex.
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