When Asli saw her husband coming home late again, she rubbed her hands and tried to control her nerves and said, "Where have you been until this hour again, it's 12 at night?"
Her husband thought you were asleep. "I didn't call, you know my wife, meetings take a long time these days, so I turn off my phone so that I don't get distracted during the meeting," he said. Aslı got even more angry and called her secretary. She said there was no meeting today and asked where you were. At that moment, Ali Bey started to squirm and cough in his seat. He carefully clasped his hands on his knees and averted his eyes, while trying to focus more on his wife's eyes, knowing that this would be suspicious. "Honey, you know, sometimes even our secretaries don't know about private meetings due to the company's confidentiality policy, and never mind, how was your day, I made the reservation for that holiday you wanted," he said. "Aslı, please don't change the subject, I know everything," he replied to his wife. When he saw Aslı's seriousness, Ali became even more anxious, started rubbing the collar of his shirt and coughing hoarsely. He was constantly swallowing and didn't know where to put his hands. There was only one question on his mind. What did Aslı know?
Since childhood, we have been raised by our families to learn that lying is the worst thing. People lie, and they lie a lot. According to some behavioral research, we lie an average of 10 times in a twenty-four hour period, including so-called 'white lies' that we use to avoid upsetting people or sparking an argument. Lying may often go unnoticed in society, the reason for this is that people trust each other.
Body movements increase especially when lies are told. Because lying causes an increase in blood flow and heart rate and the person becomes stressed. The body movements of a person under stress increase. Well, from what actions and behaviors do you understand that the other person is lying to you?
1 - CLEARING HIS THROAT OR COUGHING LIGHTLY
One of the first actions that a liar uses is often to clear his throat. In case of stress, the person's throat becomes dry and He begins to clear his throat frequently. The person coughs slightly to clear his throat because his body does not accept the lie and wants to throw it out. In addition, coughing is an action that gives the person time to find excuses for the lie he tells.
2- DIFFICULTY SWALLOWING
Again, just like when a person clears his throat. He swallows more often and has difficulty because his throat is dry. He/she swallows more clearly than normal.
3- FOCUS POINT OF THE EYES
Averting the eyes and shrinking the pupils due to fear are one of the oldest known signs of lying. . The eyes focus on where the body wants to go. Because the liar is under stress and anxiety, he wants to escape from that environment as soon as possible, both spiritually and physiologically, so he constantly looks towards the door. He may also play with his phone or constantly look at his watch during the conversation. Recent research shows that people who lie look at the other person's eyes more carefully and without looking away in order to appear convincing.
4 - DIRECTION OF THE FEET
The feet and body of the person who lies are generally He heads towards the door. He has a stance that prepares himself psychologically to escape from this uncomfortable environment.
5- SCRATCHING THE SIDES OF THE NOSE AND EYE
People who lie bring their hands to their faces a lot. Since lying is something to be ashamed of, they want to hide their faces from the unconscious, and gently playing with the tip of their nose, scratching it, or scratching the corners of their eyes are frequently performed by liars. When women lie, they mostly play with their noses, while men play with the corners of their eyes.
6- BACKWARDS HEAD AND BODY MOVEMENTS
The person who is lying. moves his head back to escape stress. Because he wants to escape from the lie he tells and he thinks that moving away from the person he lied to will protect him.
7-DIGRUPT MOVEMENTS
One of the things people do to distract their worries. attracted to themselves or those around them They are physical movements that occur in the form of ordering. The liar adjusts his tie, shirt collar or glasses while answering the question. A woman who does not answer honestly may brush back a few strands of hair behind her ear or straighten her skirt. Tidying up the people around you is another way of putting things in order. In response to the question, the person may try to arrange his phone, water glass or pen around him.
7-INCOMPATIBLE HAND MOVEMENTS
Under normal circumstances, the person's speech and There is harmony between hand movements, but the gestures, facial expressions and hand movements of the liar are different and incompatible with the content of the speech. Body movements are not in a way that confirms what the person is saying. The person uses hand movements to hide the palm. Palms are generally a symbol of reliability, purity and honesty. When lying, a person unconsciously hides his palms. Of course, even if a person has all of these symptoms, it does not prove that that person is 100% lying. Because liars can sometimes pay too much attention to their actions and try to appear honest. These are stress, anxiety and physical reactions that occur when a person lies, which have been determined by research for many years. However, I advise you to think twice before believing the people you see these symptoms with. Pleasant days, far from lies and with plenty of truth.
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