As a social being, each individual differs from each other in terms of environment, upbringing, and family of origin. For example; Although pre-modern (traditional), modern and post-modern structures exist in our family, in our environment and in us, we may actually carry the mixed model of these three structures. We all have relationships that develop and differ around us.
When we have good relationships with our spouse, family, children, colleagues and environment, we express ourselves better and at the same time establish quality relationships, which helps us become a happier individual. We can say that the more satisfaction we can find in our relationships, the more pleasure we get from life. Every relationship has its own dynamic.
This dynamic is based on mutual communication. Being able to communicate correctly lies at the basis of every relationship and affects our entire lives. With relationship coaching or relationship management studies, we can manage our lives better and at the same time notice mistakes, truths and conflicts in our communication, and thus the quality of our relationships increases. People's ability to cope with different problems varies depending on their families, environments and cognition. Creating relationship dynamics is a method used to have a more peaceful environment and to communicate better. Family is a system. If there is a problem on one side of the relationship, this necessarily indicates the existence of a cyclically repeating structure. If we change ourselves as individuals, the structure in the family and relationships will also change. It is necessary to look at the dynamics of these together.
Usually, counselors are consulted when there is a problem in a relationship. However, working before we unite our lives with a person, or before taking our relationship with that person to the next level, allows us to see the whole part that we cannot see. Thus, people can achieve harmony in the relationship and increase their awareness by taking each other's differences into account. As a person improves himself in the field of personal development, his relationships and communication in all areas will be better. Because the most important aspect of a good relationship is knowing oneself and being aware of one's own characteristics and expectations. This makes the difference in the meaning and value it adds to life. It makes it easier. In this case, he can understand the other person's perspective on life more easily. He notices areas in his life that are out of balance. Because the best instrument in life is balance.
In which areas can you work? Communication, listening, understanding, communication conflicts, not knowing exactly what one wants, generalizations, distortions, thinking errors. Issues such as not being able to find what one is looking for in the relationship, etc. can be worked on. Because if we always experience the same cycle in relationships and communication, there is a problem. If we are happy, our family, our spouse and therefore our society will be happier. What else is possible…
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