"Our relationship has become so monotonous"
"My relationship satisfaction is lower than before"
If you've started using these phrases often, I want to tell you something.
A A good relationship is built just like a house, just as a house is built brick by brick. After the construction of the house is completed, the house is given the necessary care in order to live in that house over the years. If the house is not taken care of, it becomes impossible to live in that house. Every day there is trouble. Moreover, it is not enough to just love the house. If your relationship has been prolonged, "We already know each other, we know. What's the need for all this?" If you think that and you don't give the necessary care, the relationship becomes unlivable like a neglected house.
So, how is it to give the relationship the care it needs? What can be done?
1. Try to understand what is going on in your partner's inner world and get to know your partner better, even after years.
2. Make each other feel loved. "He already knows I love him, why would I be in a relationship with him if I didn't?" don't think; appreciate each other, express your appreciation and love, do not neglect physical intimacy.
3. Turn towards each other; Make positive attempts to establish a permanent bond and do not be indifferent to such attempts by your partner. For example, you start a conversation about a topic and your partner responds to it.
4. Try to maintain a positive outlook towards your relationship.
5. If you are rising rapidly in conflicts, use the break method, let your partner and yourself calm down, and be open to reconciliation attempts.
6. Do not spare your support to make each other's dreams come true, and have a constant dialogue on this subject.
7. Create a common meaning; Let the wishes and desires of both partners be taken into account in the relationship.
Which of these do you do in your relationship?
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