There are times when we think about how difficult life is and how difficult it is to get out of it. At such times, a person may feel helpless about what he can do, he may feel that there is nothing he can do, but is it really like that?
Is there really nothing we can do?
Do we do everything we have to do and then complain? We do, I want us to think about these together for a while.
Let's say you are experiencing a very serious problem right now. What should you think about this first?
- How much does this problem affect me? Is it completely right next to me or do I feel this problem even if it is not right next to me?
- Who is to blame for the problems? who? Do you want to find a culprit, or do you want to evaluate your perspective on the situation.
- Who or what is the real cause of your suffering? Is this related to the meaning you attach to it, or can you really evaluate the incident in all its purity?
- Is there anyone with whom you share all these problems?
- And finally, have you taken any steps to solve it?
We can start by considering that it may be difficult to know or give the answer to all these questions. Sometimes we don't have the power to change some things, we have to be aware of that. The more we blame ourselves, the more harm we suffer. It is possible for us to see the importance of this in the later stages of our lives.
But sometimes there are situations that are in our hands but we do not make an effort to change. My suggestion is to make an effort for these situations and maybe put in a little effort here. There may be many things that a person can do to change himself and protect his spiritual integrity.
Yes, sometimes the troubles experienced can alienate you from life, you may not feel like doing anything, but in such cases, time passes and if you do your best in the here and now, you can regain that strength. You can work on how you will win.
Remember that there is not a single person who does not experience problems. Problems are meant to be solved and strengthened for the next step.
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