You often hear these words from people who see themselves as victims; “This world
feels like it's against me. “All bad things will find me.”“No one understood me” “I have no luck
in this world, good things won't find me anyway.” If you are aware, by thinking like this,
never takes responsibility for himself, he always sees the other side as wrong.
It is normal for people to feel unlucky, not understood, lonely, victim
from time to time, but , if the person constantly sees himself as a victim in his life and
this affects their relationship negatively, then there is a
problem that needs to be resolved.
If the person sees himself as a victim, he is alone has difficulty in making decisions, does not take responsibility for the choices he/she makes. In addition, if the person sees himself as a victim,
he/she feels as if he/she has been left alone, defeated, and not understood in his/her life. When he has a
problem, he expects the other party to solve it and save him from the big
pain he has been through.
If the person feels like a victim in his life, it's really natural
> cannot behave as Existence means being aware of your own thoughts, feelings,
being able to show self-compassion without blaming yourself for mistakes or failings, not positioning ourselves in relation to others, making our own decisions
, this is a difficult process because of the decisions we make. to stand by our decision even if we have made it
, to be able to take lessons from this
mistake, not to attribute it to your personality even if you do wrong, to be aware of what you feel and not to doubt
about it, to be able to talk to it, to listen to it without being afraid of your inner voice
means being able to say no to things that don't suit you when necessary.
For example, a dear friend broke your heart, but you act as if nothing happened
and keep talking to her. From where? Because
you don't want to put yourself in a powerless position. So you say that if I show my resentment
they will think negatively about me and see me as a weak person.
Pretending to do so means giving up on yourself.
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