When it comes to taking responsibility, on the one hand, there is the inadequacy (exaggeration) that I mentioned in the "responsibility-rights balance" article, and on the other hand, there is exaggeration (excessiveness).
In our 24 hours, Some of the responsibilities that almost all of us have routinely are as follows: filial duties towards our parents, responsibilities towards our spouse, parental duties towards our children, duties towards superior/subordinate employees in business life and those we serve, social responsibilities towards the society we live in, individual preoccupations towards ourselves. , sexual functions towards the spouse, religious duties for those who believe... We must establish a balance between these responsibilities. The decisive factor in establishing balance is stability rather than factors such as duration and content. It is important that it be "consistent, even if it is a little bit". The negative consequences that may occur when the balance is disrupted are reflected as complaints to us as physicians.
There is unrest in the home of the workaholic man who overdoes his work in business life and neglects his wife and children, and the man "has everything" "I don't care what they say, I buy the most expensive ones and they live in luxury, what more do they want?" he thinks. However, she cannot understand the real problem.
The woman, who goes overboard with her filial duties, tells her mother everything that is happening at home. The nuclear family has no privacy. On the other hand, he experiences constant conflicts with his wife. The man imposes prohibitions on his own, prevents his wife from meeting with his family, and as a result, the wound grows even bigger.
The religious father lives a recluse life, and accordingly, he neglects his fatherly duties towards the child at home. He fits in with bad friends and becomes addicted to drugs. Then the father asked, "How did this useless child come out of our family?" she complains.
The woman, who goes overboard in her maternal duties towards her children, neglects her husband in sexual matters, as a result, the man cheats, the woman says, "I broomed my hair, raised your children, how can she cheat on me?" ?”
The spouse who cannot say "stop" to his spouse neglects his filial duties towards his parents. Children of a person who is intensely involved in social activities (associations, politics, sports, etc.) she sheds tears. The businessman who does not distinguish between the right and the wrong, who rips off his customers and lies, saying "I will do more work and earn money", neglects his religion and is in conflict with himself in his inner world... It is possible to increase the examples, the important thing is to maintain the balance between our responsibilities as much as we can take responsibility.
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