Every family's relationship dynamics and communication styles are different. Likewise, every child is unique and special. Therefore, a relationship and communication style should be developed with each child according to the child's needs. However, it is still possible to talk about some general situations to establish healthy communication within the family and provide a healthy communication environment for the child.
So how can we provide a healthy communication environment for our child?
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Keeping in touch with the family in case of any problem; Searching for solutions together is beneficial for both the child and all family members.
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It is normal for every family to experience problems. However, by communicating; Talking about these problems mutually, seeing the problems as an instructive tool and learning some lessons together, bonds family members more to each other. The child who sees such a communication environment learns to communicate correctly and solve problems effectively, and his communication style is shaped accordingly.
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To establish a closer relationship with your child and enable him to share with you. There are many things that can be done. To give a few examples: Some activities such as setting reading times together, playing games, going to the park, reading bedtime stories can help you by allowing you to share more with your child.
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Being a good listener to your child; Being open to listening to your child not only in the face of problems but also at all times strengthens the communication between you and your child and also improves the child's way of expressing himself/herself.
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In situations where your child is experiencing problems, express your concern directly to the child. instead of reflecting, “How can I help you?” Asking and evaluating solutions together will help the child feel good and valuable.
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Remember; Correct communication with the child makes a significant contribution to the child's personality development.
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