Men are biologically and neurologically ready at the age of 20. At this age, body and brain maturation, that is, necessary development, has been achieved. But the answer to the question of whether he is psychologically ready is a little more complicated. In fact, looking at the advantages and disadvantages of each age period can help us find the ideal age.
20-30 YEARS OLD "I CAN BECOME A FATHER" PERIOD
This These ages are generally a period of achieving professional goals or pursuing dreams. These are the ages when energy is spent intensively on material goals, relationships with the opposite sex and gaining power. There is an effort to get to know women more deeply. Some of them desire to marry and have children. Being energetic is an advantage. The most common problems we see in relationships are the fact that they have not fully achieved their personal goals, their working hours are intense, they spend less time, they expect support from the family, they are quick to anger and jealousy.
Although getting married and having children in your 20s is risky, in your 30s. Risks decrease towards the ages.
30-40 YEARS OLD "I AM READY NOW" PERIOD
Family and friendship relationships, work and personal These are the ages when development becomes more established. A significant part of the goals has been achieved. Now it is time for the issues where the deficiency is felt. Especially on emotional matters. This period, in which biological energy and health are preserved and one is more conscious about life, seems to be the most ideal period to become a father.
40-50 YEARS OLD "I BECAME A FATHER... I HAVE TO DO IT NOW" PERIOD
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It is a period when it is thought that youth is slowly disappearing and it is too late. It is a period of anxiety about getting married and having children. It is a period when energy decreases but patience increases in devoting quality time to the child. If there are no significant deficiencies in life, this period seems to be an ideal period.
50 AND AFTER “IT IS LATE, BUT MAYBE..”
Biologically, he can easily become a father. Even though there is a period when you may wonder, "I wonder if the child will be healthy?" and “Will I be able to watch this child grow up?” It is a period surrounded by anxious thoughts such as: Health risks as the child grows up Increasing the number of children (in our country's conditions), the possibility of a generation gap between the child and the decrease in energy are important disadvantages. Although it does not seem ideal compared to previous periods, “Why not?” It is a period when we will think.
IDEAL FATHER OR GOOD FATHER?
• There is no ideal father, there is a good father.
• A "good father" is the person who supports the mother during pregnancy.
• He is the "good father" who changes the child's diaper, feeds him, and bathes him without resentment.
• He is the one who educates without shouting or hitting, but in an understanding and consistent manner. “good father”.
• “Is this what we saw from our father?” He is a "good father" who does not say anything.
• He is a "good father" who plays games with his child at every opportunity.
• He is a "good father" who tries to be fair, honest, compassionate and hard-working.
• He is a "good father" who tries to be fair, honest, compassionate and hard-working.
He is a "good father" who makes money through various means.
• He is a "good father" who does not constantly give advice, listens by looking into his child's eyes, and empathizes.
• He is a "good father" who gives him the opportunity to learn and make mistakes.
/> • The “good father” is the one who does not leave and is always there in case of emergency.
• The “good father” is the one who always respects and loves the mother of his child…
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