First of all, the word Ghost is a word of English origin. In Turkish, it means 'ghost'. It can also be translated as 'ghost syndrome' when considered in a romantic relationship. So what exactly is this syndrome, which is so common today? It is called the sudden disappearance of one of the individuals and the cessation of communication without any problems in the relationship. In addition, it can be repeated not once, but many times in romantic relationships. One of the biggest reasons for this may be that the boundaries are not clearly spoken and the correct communication is not established.
The person applying ghosting; experiencing fear of attachment, fear of taking responsibility, lack of self-confidence, etc. It is thought to be due to reasons such as Even though the person who disappeared suddenly knows that it is wrong, he does this behavior constantly. Especially when there is a problem in the relationship, it is preferable to get lost instead of providing a solution. It is generally seen more and more with the spread of social media nowadays.
It is also the behavior that is generally preferred by men. Looking at the basis, it is determined that in some cases, people who have it apply ghosting. These are ;
- Having problems with attachment
- Emotionally immature
- Afraid of confrontation
- Confidence problem
- People with narcissistic traits
If you have been ghosted, it is normal to feel bad and intense emotions. Because suddenly the person is alone with himself and a great feeling of emptiness can occur. Because it happens suddenly, one cannot make sense of it in his head. After that, he can occupy his brain with his own possibilities. Have I made a mistake? Or am I not beautiful? Was there someone else in your life? They can be in a mess with such questions. The probability of regression may be high. What you usually need to do here is to head for some activities and be in places you like.
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