In our society, sexuality is like a feeling of guilt and is seen as a subject that cannot be talked about.
For this reason, having sexual experiences is a troublesome process.
In our society; The lack of sexuality education and the secret sale of sexual health products negatively affect sexual development. In order to live a healthy sexual life, it is necessary to receive healthy sexual education. Otherwise, although our sexual life is a negative process, we will have wrong perceptions and cannot achieve satisfaction.
Sexual Problems:
Someone who has a feeling of guilt about sexuality; The feeling of pleasure he experiences when he is loved and caressed makes him feel guilty. In such cases, the problem of pleasure should be solved by examining the individual's enjoyment of sexuality, feeling free and the defense mechanisms used to feel guilty.
Hostility towards the Partner:
He is experiencing hostility towards his partner, has been exploited, trapped or deceived. If he feels it, he may develop intense resistance to giving pleasure to his partner. In this case, the other party is sabotaged. The one who is hostile does not allow his partner to stimulate him.
Thoughts:
Some people feel like they will be rejected if there is no controlling person in sexuality. They do not make any demands for themselves. These people may engage in obsessive thoughts. Because; They may not find themselves attractive, their partners may not like having sex, or they may have different thoughts that come to mind during sexual intercourse. Thinking during a relationship is a situation that makes it difficult for a person to focus on his partner.
Fears:
An individual who has no self-confidence regarding sexuality; He/she may be afraid of not being able to do it, not being able to enjoy it, and may feel worthless.
Individuals can overcome the obstacle of surrendering themselves to sexuality, thanks to the experiences they gain.
Finally, lack of interest in sexuality can reveal deep fears and defenses. It creates unconscious fears in men that make them feel that touching a woman's body and taking pleasure in it will harm her. Such fears contain traumas dating back to childhood.
Treatment Process:
If any of the partners is against sexual interest, Unresponsive response creates an obstacle to the treatment process. This obstacle must either be solved or bypassed. If the negative reaction is mild, a reassuring discussion with simple repetition of the experience is often enough to remove the reaction. Concerns such as being harmed during intercourse often require a psychotherapeutic intervention. Because there is a certain resolution process for the reaction that creates anxiety to emerge.
The problems we experience regarding sexuality affect our relationships after a while. For this reason, it is useful to be sensitive to sexual problems. Because sexuality is a physiological need, just like nutrition.
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