Have you ever thought about why your lover is in your life? Have you ever thought about what life is saying to you with this lover?
Life always brings something to grow us. Life always says something to make us grow.
Dear…the one you call my darling. That lover whom you sometimes feel like you love more than your own life... .sometimes you go crazy with anger... Have you ever thought about what your lover would say to you in this life?
Relationships usually begin with a shadow relationship. A person is attracted to the one who is not himself... he is attracted to the lover whom he thinks is not himself but is in him... he is attracted to the one who does what he cannot do... to the one who says what he cannot say... to the one who sees what he cannot see. That's why the lover has come... let's realize what we can't do... let's know what we don't say. ..so that we can see what we cannot see... that is why the lover has come to us... to show us that what we cannot do is not what we cannot do... to make us realize that we can actually say what we cannot say... to show that we can actually see what we think we cannot see.
That is why the lover has come to us... to make us grow. has arrived. To open the doors of our unknown self... to make us do what we did not dare to do before. ..he has come to take us to the path we have not taken… to make us experience what we have not experienced.
Of course, if we can look… .if we can realize this… without getting angry because he is doing the things we forbid ourselves… without blaming him for what he has done… what he has contributed to us. If we can look at what it has brought to our lives... if we can dare to look at the road we didn't follow with it. Then we can first see him, but actually in his eyes… first of all, ourselves… the other side of our soul… his shadow… accept him, and only in this way can we hear what life with that lover whispers to us… only in this way can we grow in the presence of that lover.
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