Vaginismus is a sexual function problem seen in women. It can be defined as the involuntary contraction of the pelvic muscles surrounding the vaginal entrance, causing pain during sexual intercourse or the inability to have sexual intercourse at all. Even though the woman loves and wants her husband, she stiffens herself up and cannot have sexual intercourse due to her subconscious fears. These contractions may also occur during gynecological examination or insertion of tampons into the vagina, apart from sexual intercourse.
Vaginismus is a condition of psychological origin, and very rarely may arise from anatomical reasons. A structural cause can be identified in only 10% of vaginismus patients.
It is a very common disorder. It is thought that this disorder is seen in one in every ten married couples in our country. The most common reason for vaginismus in our society is; These are psychological concerns and fears about our sexual identity. The thoughts that girls are taught or encoded in our subconscious like 'men will harm you', 'sexuality is bad', 'the hymen is something very valuable and needs to be protected' play an important role in the emergence of this problem. In our culture, a woman grows up feeling that she has a very important treasure, which she does not know what is between her legs, since her childhood.
In vaginismus, the problem is not in the vagina, but actually in the brain. Contrary to popular belief, our most important sexual organ is our brain.
TREATMENT OF VAGINISMUS
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After the diagnosis of vaginismus is confirmed, the treatment is; It is performed by sexual therapists who are experts in this field. Since the cause is psychological, there is generally no standard treatment method. Vaginismus treatment is a personalized therapy; Vaginismus treatment period may last from a few sessions to 8-10 sessions depending on the severity of the disease.
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In non-psychological vaginismus problems, structural reasons that do not allow sexual intercourse, surgery can be resolved through transactions. For this reason, people with vaginismus must be evaluated by a gynecologist. 90% of the causes of vaginismus are psychogenic. In the treatment of psychologically caused vaginismus; Interventions such as surgical interventions, local anesthetic creams, and sitz baths that cannot radically solve the problem Signs should never be applied. Behavioral and cognitive approaches are generally preferred in treatments. A cognitive approach may include giving information to the person about their genital organs and giving explanatory information about sexual intercourse. By giving information about Kegel exercises, it should be taught that control can be achieved over the love muscles in the vagina. Cognitive programs should also be applied to male partners. Men also have a lack of knowledge on this subject, and these reasons may hinder sexual intercourse. Urological reasons in men can also cause vaginismus. For this reason, meetings should definitely be held with male spouses. It is very important for the couple to take responsibility and contribute together in order for sexual therapy to be carried out healthily and to give a successful result. After vaginismus treatment, not only permanent recovery is achieved, but also couples are enabled to enjoy sexuality.
SEXUAL COUNSELING AND THERAPY
Sexuality, It has a very important role in ensuring psychological balance and a happy, peaceful family life. It makes life full of pleasure and meaning. In this way, it strengthens love and affection and adds new dimensions to life. Unfortunately, many marriages in our country come to an impasse due to sexual incompatibility and conflicts in the relationship, and couples are forced to continue an unhappy relationship for years.
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IF YOU CANNOT HAVE SEXUAL RELATIONSHIP
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IF YOUR SEXUAL DESIRE IS VERY DECREASED OR NONE AT ALL
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IF YOU HAVE FEARS ABOUT SEXUAL RELATIONSHIP OR ARE TENSE DURING SEXUAL RELATIONSHIP
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IF INABILITY TO WET, DRY, BURNING AND PAIN OCCUR DURING SEXUAL RELATIONSHIP
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IF YOU ARE EXPERIENCED DIFFICULTY IN ARRIVAL, NUMBERS AND INABILITY TO HAVE ORGASMS IN SEXUAL RELATIONSHIP
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IF YOU CANNOT HAVE A GYNECOLOGICAL EXAMINATION DUE TO FEAR
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IF YOU ARE HAVING AN ARGUMENT WITH YOUR SPOUSE DUE TO YOUR SEXUAL PROBLEMS
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IF YOUR WIFE HAS PRIMARY EJACULATION AND ERECTION PROBLEMS
You can find solutions to similar problems with sexual counseling and therapy. Sexual therapists determine the causes of your problems accurately and provide you with therapy. The doors to a healthy and happy relationship will open. It can cause problems such as vaginismus, painful sexual intercourse, inability to orgasm and sexual reluctance. Some of these complaints may be permanent and cause serious problems in marriages in the future.
Men may also experience erection problems, premature ejaculation and inability to have sexual intercourse due to anxiety and fear.
By receiving SEXUAL COUNSELING, all couples planning marriage can easily learn about sexual anatomy, the structure of the hymen, its location, how to get and give pleasure, what the first night actually looks like and how to get over it easily. In this way, many sexual problems that are common in our country can be prevented before they start. At the same time, detailed information about contraceptive methods can be given to couples who do not want to have children right at the beginning of marriage. Pre-pregnancy counseling is provided to couples planning pregnancy, helping couples, and therefore our society, to have healthier babies.
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