Marriage is something beyond being a roommate of two people... As they say, marriage is the vow you make to always be with you in good times and bad times. Marriage is being able to love not only physically but also spiritually... Marriage is a community of people who are not deceived... To love is the most important thing to be loved. The most important thing is to respect and be heard. Marriage is mutual tolerance. Marriage is the sacred established order of society. Marriage is the life you want to choose. Sharing your life is the life you spend with people.
Marriage…
For some, marriage can be a source of happiness, while for others, marriage is a nightmare that cannot be escaped. While those who are happily married recommend it to everyone, those who are unhappy in marriage do not recommend it to anyone, and even say that being single is sultanate. .
SO WHAT SHOULD WE CONSIDER?
- ''Pisces The expression "it stinks from the beginning" is said exactly for marriage. In fact, even though we thought that it was not suitable for us, even though we saw all the negativities and mistakes in the beginning, in the hope that it would get better, or maybe because we were in love, we saw the truth. We don't care about the situations that seem negative to us, we only see the positive features, we get married, and of course, when the love ends, we say, what have we done? It has changed a lot.. or marriage has ended love! We make statements like this, but in fact it has always been that way and it is the case because we see what we want to see.
- ''See what is real''
If we do not see the real thing, we will only marry an imaginary hero and we will have the expectations of our dreams, but we actually need to return to reality and see what is, otherwise we will be disappointed.
- ''Think A Few Years Later''
Will we want the person who will be our life partner that we want now, in a few years? For example, 5 -Will we get the same pleasure 10 years later when our material and spiritual life standards change? You need to stop and think about it in order not to have regrets later…
- ''Be clear''
Still ask in your mind If there are these signs and you still haven't solved them and there are situations that you think will get better, be sure that they will get worse after marriage and create a chain of problems that cannot be solved. Do not enter this path without finding the answers to your questions.
- ''Increase Harmony and Interaction''
It would be appropriate not to forget that the relationship between spouses is important for marital satisfaction and to say that a happy marriage is inevitable only with quality interaction and harmony.
- ''Listen to Your Family's Suggestions''
Sometimes, your family can react to your emotional state. Consider the fact that it can see the truth and save you from a lifelong mistake. For these and similar reasons, listen to the suggestions of your family, parents, brothers, sisters and even your close circle, otherwise everything may be too late after you get married.
''With these wishes, I wish happiness to my sister and brother-in-law, who got married on 13.12.2015.''I wish everyone to have happy, hopeful, healthy and beautiful marriages…
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