As we are rapidly approaching the days when half of marriages will end in divorce, a research is quite interesting; Seventy-five percent of the participants in this research stated that they would divorce if they had the opportunity, while half of those who did not consider divorce stated that they were not happy in their marriage. In other words, roughly 1-2 out of every 10 marriages describe their marriage as good. While this is the case; Marriages described as good naturally arouse curiosity. Here I have compiled a compilation of the articles I could find and listed them below; What are the common characteristics of marriages described as problem-free or good? Here are the common characteristics of marriages that go well; there is a lot of overlap).
* Respect for individual choices and the level of meeting individual needs
* Ability to compromise - develop together; Developing only one of the couples increases the risk of separation or conflict.
* Sharing positive emotions; There is a significant segment of our culture that cannot share positive emotions. As emotions are expressed more, the spouse's motivation increases and reflects positively on the marriage.
* Similar ideals, similar positive family cultures (the thickness of the common ground) have been the most important factors for many years.
* Sexual harmony (I must emphasize that half of marital problems arise as a direct or indirect result of a sexual problem)
* Conflict resolution capacity; Conflict areas are inevitable in every marriage, and a couple with good personal development is in a very advantageous position in this regard.
* Joking, disappointment tolerance, capacity to be childish, energy level, capacity to postpone pleasures.
* The degree to which you work and play; The risk of divorce increases in couples who view this issue differently.
* The capacity to grieve together; Focusing together on the pain that life brings strengthens the relationship.
* The capacity to live in the present; You won't find any problems in the present, but you can find thousands of couples whose relationships ended because they were stuck in the past.
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