“He became a shahbaz” or “How could it change before the pandemic?” I seem to hear you say! The bleeding wound of many women, whether married or not, is their sexual life... It is essential for both our mental and physical health; When we talk about holistic well-being, our sexuality sits in the middle, at the core. Our sex life, which we talk very little about but think about a lot, even if we are not aware of it. Let's do something different today, while you continue to think, let me talk to all of you about our sex lives and sexuality.
In the society we live in, where being a woman is difficult enough, sexuality and sex are one of the biggest taboos even in the most modern-looking families; In fact, it casts a shadow over our entire lives, along with the dozens of myths it brings with it. Did you ask what this woman is saying? Let me tell you…
Girls do not masturbate, masturbation damages the hymen/is addictive, the man should want sex first, the woman's seeming too eager raises a question mark in the man's mind, having sex for the first time is a very painful and bloody event, sex There is already pain, where did the pleasure come from? A woman who gets a lot of pleasure is immoral, it is always the man who has to make the woman happy in bed, if you cannot have a vaginal orgasm, that sex is incomplete sex... Should I list more? We will talk to you about all these things I wrote on this page and even much more. Although he specialized in Gynecology and Obstetrics; The many trainings I received on sexology at home and abroad and the fact that "female sexuality is not discussed even behind closed doors", which has been bothering me since my early youth, not only distanced me from childbirth, but also gave me the chance to work on sexology. Now is the time to talk about the mistakes we know as right and to take all the rights of our own sexuality into our hands!
What was I saying? I was talking about sex during pandemic days, right? If you are a couple who had the chance to stay at home as husband and wife during the pandemic (unless you are a healthcare worker who had to isolate themselves in separate homes), you may have used this process as an opportunity to return to your honeymoon days and you deserve a huge congratulations! Or you've had feelings for each other for a long time, but these days He may have also experienced a period when the secret anger that you managed to hide behind all the hustle and bustle came to the surface before it could be hidden any longer; You may have come out of this process with very big and vital decisions... During this pandemic period, when we had to stay at home and literally share time and life with the person we chose as our "spouse", we were deprived of the "social masturbation" that most of us frequently do. It may have hit us in the face. When the social life we live outside and our opportunity for social masturbation, which I can define as trying to get our own satisfaction on the social media we share with embellishment, disappeared, we were left alone with our own realities and loneliness, right? Especially if there is no satisfactory and regular sexual relationship between us and our partner, there is no room left where we can reach pleasure. So what should we do now?
Let's start by discovering our own sexuality and feminine energy, but in the next article…
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