Although self-confidence is often confused with self-confidence, they are quite different from each other. Self-confidence defines people who are comfortable in social environments, express themselves comfortably, assertive, extrovert, and establish easy relationships. These people may have very high self-confidence but low self-esteem. In fact, the person may exhibit a more extroverted attitude to suppress their insecure part. Being too assertive is like a fancy wrapper that covers the parts of the person that they know are missing from the inside.
Accepting ourselves as we are results in accepting others and the world as they are. This is because of self-confidence. Components of self-confidence; it is to love ourselves as we are, to value and respect ourselves.
How do we know that a person is insecure?
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If there is no judgment, criticism, humiliation or disapproval in their behavior towards others,
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If she marginalizes those who do not think and act like her with anger and hatred
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If the most basic feature is intolerance to criticism, we can say that this person is insecure.
So, what kind of attitude does a self-confident person exhibit?
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Does not try to change those who do not think and act like themselves,
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Accepting the other as they are,
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Respecting and valuing the other,
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Praise
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We can say that a person who is independent of the opinions of others, who can stay alone without feeling lonely, is self-confident.
In childhood, their parents constantly Children who grow up listening to discontent, pessimism, and their everyday complaints become pessimistic, insecure, and incapable individuals in their future lives. If the parents encourage the child and give positive reactions to what they do, they will make a positive contribution to his development and self-confidence; If they emphasize their inadequacies and do not support their success, the formation of self-confidence in the individual will be damaged in childhood. A sense of self-confidence can develop through a consistent and fulfilling love relationship. The person with high self-confidence does not have or cannot they don't care about skills or traits, but people with low self-esteem care a lot about their shortcomings. Accordingly, in order to increase low self-confidence, the individual should ignore the areas in which he is unsuccessful and focus on the areas where he is successful.
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