One of the problems we frequently encounter lately is our children's lack of self-confidence. Many of our children in their developmental age are unhappy with being themselves. For parents who are aware of this situation, it becomes impossible for their children to be successful and visible. They can never think that their children will overcome this anxiety. Thereupon, They put severe pressure on their children. This process becomes torture for children who lack self-confidence.
Self-confidence means being happy with one's own personality, mood and physique. If we put ourselves in the place of our children who lack self-confidence, how difficult it actually is. We understand that they are going through a phase. Imagine that another person is always considered superior to you, sometimes the good things we do just for our parents are not approved by them. Not only is it not approved, but something better is demanded. Why did you get 85 while your neighbor's daughter got 100? Or why did you gain so much weight? Look at my friend's daughter. How is it possible to expect better for our children who are exposed to such approaches? Our children who lack self-confidence experience anxiety when doing something they have never done before because they are not sure that they can do a task.
So how do we make our children feel self-confident? The love, approval and value that our children receive from their elders throughout their developmental years affects their personalities. Children of parents who are congratulated and proud of their children, even if the good things they do are mistakes, and who embrace their children as they are, feel self-confident. Since their families are their friends, they believe that they will succeed in everything they do. Our children do not make a mistake. Do not ignore the mistakes they make, but do not criticize them. Do not make comparisons. Accept them as they are and make them love themselves. Help them see their own successes and talents. Do not neglect to show love to your children. Do not make fun of even the smallest problem they share with you. Take it seriously. Make him share everything. If you expect something from your child, do not exceed his limits. Do not force him to do more than you can. Pay attention to every sentence you say. Remember to forget Our children are everything to us, no success is more important than their happiness.
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