The Importance of Magical Moments in Your Relationship

How couples view permanent relationships, what they expect, what they hope for and what they find is a widely discussed topic. Undoubtedly, a relationship is neither prison life nor Rio Carnival for spouses. This is real. However, there is another indisputable fact that the lifeblood of every relationship is the Magical Moments experienced. So, what does “magical moment” mean, how is it expressed, how is it defined? Let's try to explain it best with a few examples:

• Feeling the emotional warmth radiating from your heart when you look into each other's eyes.
• The smile that spreads across your face when your partner's body touches you while passing by in the kitchen.
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• Words coming out of your mouth comfortably, uncensored and in a natural flow while sitting side by side on the sofa, being able to have intimate conversations with your partner without hesitating about your body language or being afraid to reveal anything, without worrying or measuring yourself.
• Your partner can talk about a topic you mentioned. The feeling of excitement and happiness you feel when he is interested in you.
• Being able to spend time in a quiet, calm, comfortable, enjoyable and peaceful way when you are alone.
• The electricity and excitement you experience while sharing the plans for your joint future, your partner's Knowing that he is always your biggest supporter and trusting him completely.
• Believing that you have great power together in a team spirit while sharing your problems, concerns and fears openly and courageously.
• Sexual passion. In this context, you feel the power of his touches and the power of the emotional attachment between you - knowing that passionate sex and mutual pleasure will follow after passionate touches.

In short, Magical Moments are the natural result of the spiritual, physical and emotional bond with your partner. They are experiences that manifest spontaneously when they occur.

Characteristics of Magical Moments

Magical Moments are not optional. They are not planned, programmed actions that you can make yourself or your partner experience by saying "Let's have a magical moment". They arise spontaneously, suddenly, regardless of the will of the spouses. HE Therefore, they are different from the life called Romance. Romance is a situation that exists at the beginning of a relationship in which emotional investment is made, and is largely based on illusions.

Romantic couples say, do or plan things they believe the other person wants to hear and experience. In other words, spouses pretend to be careless and live in a mutual illusion. Romance is also fueled by strong sexual attraction. At its core, romance is an act that brings two people closer, resulting in the ultimate act of union. It is short-term in nature. When the flaws, flaws and differences of the other person are revealed, this illusion in the relationship gradually fades and sometimes disappears completely. The requirements of common life, the problems faced, inevitable conflicts and contradictions erode the shine of romance.

Magical Moments, on the other hand, go beyond romance. They are moments that can be experienced in a relationship that is functional in all areas of life, while you are aware of all your partner's weaknesses and quirks, even while joking about them, that is, they are completely real. Magical moments are the product of mature relationships, they are mature moments. It is based on the specific facts of the relationship. It is a necessary and sufficient condition for them to have a loving attitude towards each other and most importantly towards yourself. You spend emotional energy and time to evaluate your strengths and weaknesses and overcome difficulties, while testing the endurance of the relationship despite the difficulties faced by the One, which is the sum of the two, and the obstacles it encounters. The gains you make in this process are credited to the emotional account of the relationship. Magical moments are like the positive emotional interest that comes from that account.

Magical Moments cannot be experienced every minute of every day. They come quite infrequently. In daily life, we mostly focus on our work, spending most of our energy and time on learning, creating, problem solving, tidying up, and interacting with others. We can expect and demand romantic gestures from our spouse. However, Magical Moments can neither be demanded nor expected. They are moments that develop completely unconsciously. They surprise you, they come to you like a pleasant surprise. They are like the creamy foam of a pleasant relationship, representing the highest emotional satisfaction that can be experienced. These are moments, even if they are seemingly very ordinary and simple. They gain momentum and intensity as the relationship matures. When you can fearlessly surrender your secrets to your spouse, they will become more frequent and stronger over time, like the patterns of a precious fabric that become clear as they are touched. Magical Moments are characteristic of a solid relationship pattern built on common experiences. They are the winking moments of love and happiness, which deepen as they are experienced and convey greater joy and meaning as they deepen. I suggest you experience this model that I am trying to explain to you. Now sit back, think about the last Magical Moment you had in your relationship. Can you remember what it was?

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