Ten years of marriage. Two children, a wife who works very hard, and a mother who thinks she does nothing but sit idle at home...
A father who cannot find time for anything during busy working hours and tries to be with his wife and children as much as he can...
He could not have predicted what would happen when he connected his wife's life-changing internet connection to end her boredom.
Our mother was not very experienced with computers. Things got complicated when he entered a chat page and gave his phone number among his contact information. His phone was receiving messages from a lot of people who wanted to meet him. He was very nervous at first. He did not respond to incoming messages. He waited for the messages to end on their own, but in vain. The messages continued to increase. She responded like a 20-year-old girl to a message she found very funny. She was playing games and having fun in her own way. A few days later, he became a member of one of the dating sites with a fake profile. A young girl meets men with her photo. He was making fun of those who sent messages.
One day, I received a message from a very handsome and mature gentleman. It was the first time he was so impressed by a photograph. It was as if this brain had a different gravitational force than the others. They met. Their conversation was progressing and it was as if they were living glued to the computer. Chatting with this gentleman was no longer entertainment but passion. Our hero even got a new phone number to chat with him more easily. He was constantly thinking about his virtual love and experiencing a new excitement, but there was a difference between the girl in the photo and his own image. After all, she was married and the mother of two children. While she was debating whether to reveal her real identity or not, the internet love said that she was married but did not want this relationship to end. The lady was surprised but happy.
- I am also married and that photo does not belong to me, she said immediately.
-I would like to see the woman I am in love with?
-……….
The lady went to the man who had been on her mind for days, thinking that there was nothing secret anymore. They started meeting at regular intervals and getting together. With each meeting, he became more attached to her, and his feeling of guilt towards his wife and children increased. Father Our work was still intense. His endless trust in his wife prevented him from sensing what was happening.
until he sat in front of the computer while his wife was not at home. Everything was revealed. That eternal trust disappeared in an instant. His wife had been with a man for months. They met at regular intervals and had sex. He was devastated.
For the lady, what she experienced was just a passion. It was a mistake. He begged for forgiveness for days...
What was to be done? To forgive or to leave?
With the widespread use of the internet in our country, we have come across this and similar cases very frequently.
This situation, called virtual infidelity, starts like a game, as explained in our story. You spend time and have fun, but never fall in love. Because he shouldn't see it. You neither explain yourself fully nor listen carefully to the other person. Listening is not vital anyway. Expressing yourself as you want it to be gives you peace and you never want to lose this peace. This is the passion in chat. As a result of your feelings of being liked and loved not being satisfied enough, you become attached to someone you don't see and think you love them. Enough to ignore his wife and children and risk all kinds of danger for that person's sake.
The lady I told you above defends herself with the following words;
'We wouldn't be in this situation if she hadn't tried to cover up the problem by trying to spend more time with me and buying internet.' .
This is a defense, but it is very difficult to say that it is a false determination.
This couple chose to make an effort to save their marriage. They are getting help from a family therapist and the therapy is about to end. What is valuable is the effort made to turn what is wrong into right.
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